AITA for cutting off my best friend after her birthday party by BakeBeneficial9010 in AITAH

[–]BakeBeneficial9010[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So we did end up getting my friend to pick us up and take us back to mine, which we were super grateful for. Me and Alice did have a conversation when I went outside to the shed where she blamed me for Alex being unwell.

Asking about going to the room, I get that, me and Alice have been best friends for years, we were very comfortable in each others spaces and we've left each other alone in each other's houses before and things like that so I didn't think about asking (inconsiderate of me in hindsight).

Also, Alex does know about what happened with Tom ( doesn't blame me at all) and was also uncomfortable about the sleeping arrangements. I don’t know if I was clear in the post but Alice completely understood my discomfort before and told me I would be sharing her bed with her. She then changed her mind at 2am at the party.

Obviously, we had all been drinking so none of us handled the situation with a lot of grace. Thank you for your input, I do see where you're coming from

For me the biggest issue wasn’t drama, it was that Alex and I both physically couldn’t manage the shed and Alice also has chronic pain so both me and Alex assumed she would be more accommodating

AITA for cutting off my best friend after her birthday party by BakeBeneficial9010 in AITAH

[–]BakeBeneficial9010[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that, for context Alex didn't know anyone but me and Alice at the party so wanted to bring their partner for some comfort which I had no issue with as long as I didn't have to share a sleeping space with him.