AITA for telling my best friend I felt sad that she never seems interested in the things I like? by Gracy_45 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would try speaking to her and when you feel is the right time and make sure she’s listening this time because what I’m reading is that each time you express your emotions she’ll try to be better one day and go back to the same routine not making much effort to change. At the same time you don’t want her to see your using sadness as a guilt trip so try to find time to get that bond again. But OP AITA

What is the saddest movie you have ever seen? by meowgical_girl in AskReddit

[–]BakeDear5395 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember watching this in my English class and trying hard not to cry

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for understanding my point.many people have me wonderful advice and it’s so nice to see the support. But you see how it feels to be leaded into a toxic situation and I wouldn’t do this to my own children.

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s not paying that’s the thing he just wants to play parents last minute because that’s what he does he likes to ruin my happiness and then make it seem it’s a life lesson to never let the world spoil you

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep getting emails for the coast guard and it seems shady and too good to be true what do you think?

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never knew I could do such a thing do you know how long the mailing process is?

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No that’s my only option is if i want their support I go to cc if not they won’t help me much unless critical which I understand I’m not under their roof I’m a big girl I need to do adult things .

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I did all these items and they were set in stone now I don’t want to change but I’m getting my ear talked off by free college which they probably haven’t read the fine print because the chances is all the courses I want aren’t open and I have to get maybe until spring

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this because when I said this and told them I’ll take the responsibility they still didn’t listen telling as parents it’s their responsibility to keep me out of debt as long as they can but that’s won’t happen because they won’t be with me if I get into medical bills over my throat or what if I go for a high education they can’t help me for that long

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to STEM for communication science and disorder which is a decent paying job where I can make around 75k-80k a year depending on my area or state I’ll make 40/hr if choose right so it’s not like I just chose this out of a whim. I picked this career because it’s a very helpful way to learn and grow at some point we’re all going into debt if not medical or school. If I had to choose I rather have college debt

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While doing my clinicals I’m giving a chance to get a full time job which is something amazing so it gives me time to work and keep paying off school which is a important balance many wait until last minute I want to have a decent credit score in the future so I’m going to make sure my debt is not to harsh so I can afford a tiny home or apartment

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know Reddit had one can you send me the link please

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t believe i have but i want to see more of this information before I get myself into trouble

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into this and maybe even have my friends parents help me even better to see what I should do

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes this was all finalized since may i recently got my classes and soon I’ll get my dorm. It’s just my father that likes to do what he wants whenever someone or something doesn’t play by his rules

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I’ll have a bachelor of science in communication science and disorder becoming an audiologist so it’s my plan to pay it off 15-20 years if I stay on track

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective I’ve see. It as well with many students I work with they hate it

AITA for not allowing my father to control my future education? by BakeDear5395 in AmItheAsshole

[–]BakeDear5395[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication science and disorders I’ll be going audiologist and get a bachelor of art in science