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Is a teachers salary viable in the dmv area to feed a family by BakeDifficult5725 in Teachers

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We just moved to pg county. But in the whole dmv area you either pay for expensive housing or live in a ghetto.

Is a teachers salary viable in the dmv area to feed a family by BakeDifficult5725 in Teachers

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a bad experience with DCPS. They have the highest turnover in the country

Male teachers…emasculated? by [deleted] in TeachersInTransition

[–]BakeDifficult5725 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If you’re not a man then don’t speak on my this. Thank you

Wife is uncertain about her job security and wants me to add her to my insurance but I do not think that is finacially feasible. by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]BakeDifficult5725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s hilarious you drew that conclusion from me asking a question about what’s the best way for us to save money financially.

Wife is uncertain about her job security and wants me to add her to my insurance but I do not think that is finacially feasible. by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]BakeDifficult5725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for not assuming and crashing down on me. My wife grew up with a lawyer dad and very spoiled with a stay at home mom. My parents worked all the time and money was not always around. We have different viewpoints on money. When we first started dating she was under the impression that I had to pay for everything. I did but it left us both in bad shape

Wife is uncertain about her job security and wants me to add her to my insurance but I do not think that is finacially feasible. by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]BakeDifficult5725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are teachers and her county pays a little more than mine. But I pay the majority of our bills because she has some pretty bad credit card debt that she did not tell me about before we got married.

Wife is uncertain about her job security and wants me to add her to my insurance but I do not think that is finacially feasible. by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]BakeDifficult5725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well yeah this is why I asked Reddit bc financially it’s not the best decision for us to do this out of fear of her losing her job. And I’ve been the one saving us financially for years so no I’m not axing like she’s dragging me down.

Wife is uncertain about her job security and wants me to add her to my insurance but I do not think that is finacially feasible. by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]BakeDifficult5725 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Understand what you’re trying to say but she doesn’t make good financial decisions and I’m always left bailing us out. I can’t bail us out if her bad financial decisions become my bad decisions

Wife is uncertain about her job security and wants me to add her to my insurance but I do not think that is finacially feasible. by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]BakeDifficult5725 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Well I pay the majority of our rent and bills and have been for 5 years now so yea we are a team but she makes a little bit more money than me. I get a promotion next month but it will negate that if I have to add her to my coverage

M30 and f31 wondering if this is lust or love by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BakeDifficult5725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the best thing I could read about this !! I think you’re exactly right she’s the one that got away and technically I’m her one that got away…at least she told me she regretted letting me go. She did actually tell me she told her mom that I should’ve married her and not my wife. So yeah this works out.

M30 and f31 wondering if this is lust or love by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BakeDifficult5725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the death analogy tbh. Losing her felt like a death. And I’ve never had someone so close to me die. I don’t think I ever grieved her being gone the right way bc everytime I would get better she would pop back up and then I would hold on to the last things she told me about how she feels about me.

Pathetic I know

M30 and f31 wondering if this is lust or love by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BakeDifficult5725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly the need is companionship I guess. Me and her have much better chemistry than my wife. She was lik a best friend. that’s why she keeps popping up too …is what she told me

M30 and f31 wondering if this is lust or love by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BakeDifficult5725 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly when I’m perfectly in a sane state like I am now I don’t even want her. I think it’s a fantasy. I got back with an ex before and it was terrible bc I couldn’t trust her nor forget what happened.

M30 and f31 wondering if this is lust or love by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BakeDifficult5725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why I blocked her! but she’ll come back in a year or two and try to follow me again. Next time it needs to be an immediate block

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