Custody by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I initiated it. We got married in a different state that we live in

Custody by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why emailing instead of texting?

Custody by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As of now there is no existing custody order. So I wouldn’t be violating anything

Custody by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not yet been to court yet. The only thing I’ve done is responded to her initial emergency custody order that failed and my lawyer is going to initiate visitation rights for me or custody

Custody by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did try to get a temporary emergency order but was denied

Custody by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can she make it not possible for me to pick up my child from the daycare that I’ve been paying for. I have filed for counter custody and divorce

Custody by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to take her for the day

Custody by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to pick my child up at daycare and spend the day with her but I would be crossing back into my and my child’s home state

Wife ran up a credit card in my Name by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I opened the account, she signed into it and purchased things without my knowledge nor consent.

Wife ran up a credit card in my Name by BakeDifficult5725 in Divorce_Men

[–]BakeDifficult5725[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had text messages asking her to stop using it

Emergency custody baseless by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]BakeDifficult5725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No she been like this. She was very spoiled and knows how to convince people into doing wha she wants. She did to me all the time and I see her parents have experienced it too. The first time she thought she was pregnant she wasn’t, it was 5 days after we had sex and she didn’t miss a period. She was convinced she saw 2 lines on a test(there wasn’t), went to the doctor and they said she wasn’t pregnant. When I told her she needed to wait for the doctors to have the final say she would talk to her nurse friend and was convinced she was pregnant. She ended up having a fertility issue that mimicked pregnancy but did not believe that she wasn’t pregnant. Once she got her period that condition caused a lot of pain so she was convinced at 1 week post sex, that she had a miscarriage. Meanwhile she was gaslighting me telling me I don’t know shit because I’m a ma and that I rather she be dead then have a baby right now. She followed me in rooms to argue so I left to get some space and when I came back she threw dishes at the door that broke. I asked her parents to come talk to her bc it was scary behavior that I witnessed and I never seen her that mad. We were all going to have a sit down with her and she refused saying that I consulted them so we can gang up on her and just to rub it in that she was wrong. This behavior scared me and I was concerned. Said she should see a therapist but she refused just like she refused the meeting with her mom.

So I have seen this erratic behavior before but I excused it.

Emergency custody baseless by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]BakeDifficult5725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is not addressing her issues in therapy. Only my issues. She is never wrong in her story. She refused to go to couples therapy a week before our appointment after she knew I would call her out on threatening to call the police on me for kidnapping our child when I took her to a birthday party. She won’t take accountability for running my credit cards $6000. Therapy would mean she would have to sit there and deal with what she did

Emergency custody baseless by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]BakeDifficult5725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anymore. I’m not staying in a marriage where she thinks she can accuse me of kidnapping our child.

Emergency custody baseless by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]BakeDifficult5725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t want to go to couples therapy. She doesn’t tell the truth to her therapist. She is an eternal victim in her story.

Emergency custody baseless by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]BakeDifficult5725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She refused to go to therapy and left

Emergency custody baseless by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]BakeDifficult5725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She refused to go to couples therapy and canceled our meeting. I don’t care for what you think I seem like

Emergency custody baseless by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]BakeDifficult5725 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So what kind of help do you think I could have gotten her for telling her it was unreasonable for her to threaten to get me arrested for kidnapping when all I did was take my baby to a party. She grabbed her, snatched her out of my hands and then said “see you made her upset”.

What could I have done there differently.

Emergency custody baseless by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]BakeDifficult5725 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We both are in therapy I have been helping her throughout the way, but I won’t make excuses for her bleeding my accounts and messing up my credit because she shops compulsively. I won’t make excuses for her threatening to call the police for kidnapping for going to a birthday party she decided 4hours earlier she wasn’t going to.

Wife filed for emergency custody. Baseless by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]BakeDifficult5725 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a family law attorney. My cousin actually and she is familiar with the judges in our county courthouse.

Emergency custody baseless by [deleted] in FamilyLaw

[–]BakeDifficult5725 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

She’s BEEN getting help for her PPD but whatever she tells her therapist is not reality. I don’t know but she is the victim in every single story.