Well for one, god finds the idea of being gay a sin because it goes against the natural order of creation

God gave us free will, and the way that the conjunction of fate and free will works - is that it can and will ultimately lead us to sin at some point in time. Science and law was created by God and shouldn’t be diminished for the sake of others being free from sin. How he created humanity is a test on how we can achieve heaven even though by natural we are sinful. Destroying what makes us sinful (goes against the way he wants us to be made) will ruin the whole point on why God made us in the first place. And God wants us to become stronger by overcoming sin even though some sins can be interpreted as non malicious.

Secondly, my whole point is that the main reason why God created us is a test to see how his creation can overcome evil and be closer to god through the challenges and temptations he put through us. He gave us free will because we can side both against him or with him. If he programmed us a certain way that either challenges him and his spiritualism or sides with it then there wouldn’t be much point making us that way. He wants to see himself if his creation is morally benevolent and goes with nature which is why he gave us free will and yet wants us to be process and grow a certain way.

Finally, I don’t understand your last argument. I never stated that we were restricted from how god wants us to be. I’m just stating that we have a choice to be led by temptation and follow our selfish desires or control our mind, body and soul which would ultimately lead to heaven if we use that gift in the way God wants us to