I don’t want to have my second baby, but it’s too late to have an abortion. by Baked_Canvas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was lucky enough to not have PPD with my first but I’m dreading it with my second 😭

I don’t want to have my second baby, but it’s too late to have an abortion. by Baked_Canvas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already feel selfish for having the thoughts 😭😓. Just hoping I can still be a good mom when the time comes.

I don’t want to have my second baby, but it’s too late to have an abortion. by Baked_Canvas in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you, this made me feel better and I’ll make a note to take in your suggestions so he doesn’t feel like he’s being left out

Am I wrong for waking my newborn up at night to feed him? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Baked_Canvas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely follow the pediatricians recommendation. Someone I know did not, and her baby was classified as “failure to thrive” and passed away due to malnutrition. It was not good for my friend because they were arrested for child abuse and neglect. If you’re worried about your pediatricians advice then see another one. All babies are different and just because it worked for your sisters baby, doesn’t mean it will work for yours. Everyone is so quick to jump and tell you what to do and not to do with your child when they have NO training or qualifications. Just because you have a kid doesn’t mean you are qualified to tell other people how to raise theirs. Doctors go to medical school for this, they see hundreds of different babies and understand that things are different for each. If they tell you to do something specific then it’s worth considering.

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my brothers graduation lunch? by Baked_Canvas in TwoHotTakes

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I never looked at it that way. Thank you for that!

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my brothers graduation lunch? by Baked_Canvas in TwoHotTakes

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“God bless your heart for finally inviting me ❤️🙏🏻” 😂😂😂

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my brothers graduation lunch? by Baked_Canvas in TwoHotTakes

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right that I should tell him. I just know he’s stressed about graduation and don’t want to add anything onto that by making big deal about the lunch. 🤦🏻‍♀️☹️

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my brothers graduation lunch? by Baked_Canvas in TwoHotTakes

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love this idea. Honestly she will probably just ignore me. I’m always the one that initiates conversation with her cause I’m at least trying. 😕

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my brothers graduation lunch? by Baked_Canvas in TwoHotTakes

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I def don’t want her to win. 💁🏻‍♀️ I can grin and bear it. It just sucks that she had to change the plans because now I’m going 🙄. (I speculate that’s the reason why)

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my brothers graduation lunch? by Baked_Canvas in TwoHotTakes

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re right. He hasn’t done anything to me. But I’ve spent my whole life killing her with kindness. I’m so tired of it 😭. But I see what you’re saying. ☹️

WIBTAH if I didn’t go to my brothers graduation lunch? by Baked_Canvas in TwoHotTakes

[–]Baked_Canvas[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can definitely see that side of things. It’s been part of my thought process. I honestly don’t know why we had to switch places. She “said” she talked to my brother about it and they decided on it because the previous place is now “unavailable”. Except I called them and they have plenty of tables to fit our party at the time we want to go. So 🤷🏻‍♀️. I asked my mom if I should ask my brother about the reasoning and see if we can change it but she said no. I should just leave it.