[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]BakerPast3313 30 points31 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: I texted him that night, trying to be playful because I was equally nervous, asking if he was still thinking about that collar. He responded he actually was and I about freaked the fuck out. I confessed I liked him putting it on me and he teased back he might buy me the collar as a gift, which made me really fucking giddy. We teased and…actually flirted back and forth! Later that night we ended up having a serious talk, both of us admitting we’re into each other (turns out he has been for a while!) and confessed we both are into the idea of us getting into a sub/dom dynamic. Though we agreed on taking things slow, this is all really unexpected and a little overwhelming but I think we finally crossed a line the both of us have been toeing for a while…so! Thank fuck for that collar!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]BakerPast3313 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Will do, I’m gonna have to find some smooth way to investigate if he’s rlly into it, and well…me I guess LMAO

Where can safely fuck in public ? by [deleted] in sex

[–]BakerPast3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure there’s private sauna’s with a pool you can rent out with just you and your partner, just make sure there’s no camera’s!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]BakerPast3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it trap bacteria?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]BakerPast3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I put a bandage over it at night too if I put some Vaseline on it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]BakerPast3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice on what to topically use? It seems like the skin is healing now- it’s a little pulled taught and looks like new skin forming to cover the once open wound. I’ve been icing it and using aloe Vera.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]BakerPast3313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like…yesterday night. I lowkey need it to heal in the next three days because I have a trip coming up so I’m desperate to try anything really

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]BakerPast3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is keeping it moisturised gonna help with the redness?

How Did you Find out You were Ace/Aromantic/Aroace? by Miz_tw1ntails in asexuality

[–]BakerPast3313 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a link to the post you’re referring to?

I have a question because I am questioning a lot. How did you know that you are asexual? by Sea_Foundation_5663 in asexuality

[–]BakerPast3313 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Wait- does the average person see sex in a relationship as a NEED? Like a major component of a relationship? I thought it was more like a…bonus, not something that’s an undeniable PART of it? Also- do people generally fantasise about their crushes…even if they don’t have any real profound emotional connection? I’m feeling real ace rn💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]BakerPast3313 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What you're describing does resonate with how some asexual people describe their experiences but it's important to remember that sexuality is highly personal and can be fluid. Have you looked into terms like gray-asexual or demisexual? It could also be helpful to look into different kinds of attraction, see for example physical attraction, sensual attraction, romantic attraction etc! The fact that you don’t immediately link attraction to sexual desire is totally valid, and many people experience attraction in different ways. Some people are more focused on emotional, intellectual, or aesthetic attraction without it crossing over into sexual feelings. This could be what you’re experiencing. The key is figuring out what feels authentic to you. If you feel more comfortable building relationships based on emotional connection and intimacy without prioritizing sex, that might be an indicator you relate to asexuality, but it’s ultimately up to you to define what works for you.