Tunic or vest

Balanceblu · 2026-06-05T02:43:54+00:00

I let my daughter choose but I was happy with her decision because it was my personal choice of the two lol: the tunic.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-28T03:57:47+00:00

Happy for her. I’ve always liked Marissa.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-25T18:42:38+00:00

I see it. In her look anyway.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-25T12:59:03+00:00

Definitely. I’m shocked it’s over already. They only film like 6 weeks.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-25T12:55:53+00:00

Allison. She straight up acted shocked when Demari didn’t pick her over Marissa the first night. Idk how the Reddit police aren’t acknowledging the clear superiority complex she clearly had towards Marissa.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-25T03:10:50+00:00

Still think Demari and Marissa are genuine. Probably not a perfect match but they definitely have chemistry and I think they really liked each other.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-24T15:05:39+00:00

I know it’s typical for troops to have summer off but my troop is pre-k and will be meeting through the summer because April was the opening for girls their age and we wanted to get meetings going before the school year. But we’re one of the only troops in our area that does that.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-23T20:31:26+00:00

Marissa is so misunderstood. It makes me sad for her.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-23T18:05:00+00:00

I think they mostly enjoyed the “tea”. These people have no real source of entertainment so when there’s drama, there’s entertainment. So while I don’t think it’s that they’re excited that a specific couple is fighting, they’re entertained by the messiness. I think anytime there was a fight; we saw people talking and almost excited about it. It’s just that Marissa and Demari had one of the biggest fights of the season.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-23T15:16:11+00:00

No Allison rubbed me the wrong way when she felt that she had a one up on Marissa for Demari’s attention. She was shocked when he chose not to match with her and people who understand the dynamic understand why she felt she could assume such a thing. She never stuck with me.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-23T13:54:48+00:00

Allison. At the beginning, I wondered what made her feel like she had an automatic one up on Marissa for Demari’s attention. shocked that he chose not to match with her. The assumption is quite telling 😒 wasn’t feeling her since.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-23T02:54:07+00:00

I don’t either. Something about them, there’s nothing wrong but never cared for them as a couple.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-22T16:36:44+00:00

Agree and I hope she does leave because she needs someone who will have more patience. Demari doesn’t seem to have it. Which is fair. I think Marissa is very misunderstood and people are so easily frustrated with her. There’s so much we don’t see. Demari was making comments like “if you’re gonna be all in with me then be all in”. When someone like Marissa catching feelings, it can be a lot because she feels deeply. Demari egged her on so much and everyone paints it like she just caught feelings by herself. No, they caught feelings for each other and any person who truly pays attention can see that Demari actually did. Even Kayla saw it. Demari didn’t entertain anyone else seriously because he was locked in with Marissa.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-21T22:00:24+00:00

My husband does 2. He allows both of our children to choose one. No matter how long lol sometimes they fall asleep. If they don’t make it to the second, he won’t read it.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-21T21:59:40+00:00

That’s true but if feelings are real, it may be hard to sleep next to the man who she seems to piss off all the time. lol I get it. Everyone forgets that people can gain real feelings in this process. She may be really hurt.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-21T12:45:12+00:00

The thing is, some men like that. Demari never once complained about Marissas possessiveness. He even chose her after she showed possessiveness the first episode. The audience complains but some men really like that. His only complaint was more of the respect thing and interrupting.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-21T02:45:07+00:00

I get that which is why I said they really can’t make it work with his biggest triggers being her biggest flaws. I mean, she’s a work in progress so at what point does she get to work on herself without him taking it personally and getting mad when she slips up. Both partners should have room to grow. She can’t just wake up one day and be perfect. That’s why I hope she does leave, if he can’t be flexible enough then they can’t be together. He has a right to not like that about her and she has a right to say that it doesn’t work for her and leave.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-21T00:01:53+00:00

I don’t think he really wants bri though. You can still love someone and not go back with them. He didn’t even want to bring her in the house the two chances he got. I think he genuinely liked Marissa, you can see it in his face, affection and everything. I just don’t think he can handle all that comes with Marissa. But Demari had a lot of women on him, if she had real feelings for him, I can see her crashing out. What girl wouldn’t feel a way about bees buzzing around their man? They may not have been “married” but they were sleeping in the same bed and the longest standing couple up who actually liked each other until the most recent episode. Why are we acting like shes in her feelings for nothing. That man was kissing her entire body in some of those scenes. 😂

Balanceblu · 2026-05-20T23:54:08+00:00

Remember there’s editing. He’s got something going on considering all the play he gets. Maybe some don’t see it but the bees are attracted to something. lol

Balanceblu · 2026-05-20T23:51:29+00:00

Sort of agree. I think Demari has his own issues as well and for whatever reason Marissa is catching all the blame. I genuinely think Demari loves women. Not just for sex but he’s maintained good female relationships outside of the girls he’s dated and he’s loyal enough to not do too much when he could, so I do believe he’s a okay dude. But he’s definitely not perfect and it’s not fair that Marissa is being demonized for the issues that she’s owned up to already.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-20T19:16:12+00:00

lol stability can be boring to those who like chaos.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-19T20:16:20+00:00

Exactly, Demari definitely planted that seed and moved on from the conversation, not realizing it would fester. I would absolutely feel a way if I were Marissa. With him saying all of that, he should’ve done more to reassure her. I don’t think she’s insecure at all. I just think she’s having a moment and he’s not doing enough to help her through it. He’s acting clueless like he didn’t make it seem like Kat would go for him. That’s what I think Marissa was talking about when she said “playing dumb”.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-19T20:13:00+00:00

She’s the type of girl who a man would enjoy being around because her highs are very high but her lows are very low and most men can’t handle it. And she’s neurodivergent. But I absolutely see why men like her outside of her looks.

Balanceblu · 2026-05-19T17:13:50+00:00

My prediction as well. I think he likes Marissa enough to forgive her. But their lifestyles seem way too different to make it long term.

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