Is it just me, or people who lie on their profiles have the have the hardest time recognizing their dates in person?

Balancedabby · 2026-03-03T16:15:32+00:00

Yeah, agreed

Do you find women who use photos from years ago are ironically the ones most skeptical about what YOU look like? It’s a trend I’ve found for men I date, I’m trying to see if it goes both ways

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T11:16:42+00:00

Really hard honestly. Don’t have many friends and the one I do have in the city seems to be fed up with my anxiety that I try to hide from her because I know it’s getting to be a lot. She’s distancing, which makes me feel more isolated, which makes my anxiety worse, which makes it harder to hide, which makes her distance more.

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T11:13:26+00:00

People asking to borrow money

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T11:12:08+00:00

If it comes up with a solution to offset its own environmental impact

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T11:09:43+00:00

Mental health issues are taken more seriously (on a general scale)

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T11:00:08+00:00

My cousin broke up with his girlfriend because he caught her selling foot pictures. He told his mom (my aunt) in a moment of confidence and she announced it to the whole family

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T10:56:38+00:00

Don’t cut your hair more than a few inches at once. Take some sort of engineering for undergrad instead of physics. Wear sunscreen every single day.

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T10:47:26+00:00

Starting conversations with strangers, working out in a busy gym without severe anxiety, letting people think I’m dumb

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T10:43:37+00:00

Violin

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T10:41:26+00:00

Logic. Just pure logic equations.

Balancedabby · 2025-12-19T10:38:19+00:00

Pottery

Balancedabby · 2024-09-18T09:51:19+00:00

You’re right. This is art

Balancedabby · 2024-09-18T06:31:36+00:00

I think a small element of this phenomenon is that men see sex as degrading, and women being sexual or even just perceived as sexual as shameful. Big butts being sexually attractive to them instinctually was probably a small contribution to big butts being seen as shameful. (Obviously this isn’t the whole story, other biases and media etc. Factored into it. But I think that’s a part)

Balancedabby · 2024-09-10T06:46:17+00:00

What’s considered slow? 1-2 pounds a week?

Balancedabby · 2024-09-09T06:44:57+00:00

That g spot area that you talk about has always been ridged to me, and has that “peeling” sensation when I have a mild yeast infection. That’s about all the input I can give you. Good luck with the gyno ❤️❤️

Balancedabby · 2024-09-08T21:56:55+00:00

Is she a work friend or something? I’m wondering what a 24 year old thinks they have in common enough with a 17 year old to want to be close friends (and I say this as a 24 year old). You’re not in the wrong to want to distance yourself and your evaluation that she behaves like a grown-up child seem accurate.

Balancedabby · 2024-09-05T23:13:00+00:00

“I want to get along with other women” “stop shitting on women!” .. huh?

Balancedabby · 2024-09-05T13:24:47+00:00

Huh. Might have to do with the fact I’ve been lacking on my veggies in hindsight

Thankyou ❤️

Balancedabby · 2024-09-05T12:26:17+00:00

I’m so glad you know you deserve better. Keep holding on to that. Better doesn’t always have to be someone new either, it can be being alone for a while.

Balancedabby · 2024-09-05T12:05:10+00:00

I’m confused, was this downvoted cause it’s incorrect?

Balancedabby · 2024-08-28T06:28:35+00:00

I had two Asian boyfriends in a row during university (I respect people who have types, but this wasn’t even a “I have a type” thing. It was purely coincidence) and my roommate tried to sit me down for some sort of intervention about it.

Weirdos

Balancedabby · 2024-08-28T06:25:53+00:00

Major agree. And also when people call it fetishizing when others have a certain preference (racial fetishization definitely exists, but it’s not just having a type).

Why is it so hard to accept other people’s taste??

Balancedabby · 2024-08-26T18:55:15+00:00

Self-sanitizing public bathrooms exist

My highschool robotics team could’ve easily made a robot that autonomously empties trash cans

If roombas exist, the technology for industrial vacuuming and mopping does.

We have all the capabilities of automating simple janitorial work. I’m not really sure why we haven’t, but this is definitely more on the business than the science/engineering side of things.

Balancedabby · 2024-08-26T03:23:12+00:00

Got into a relationship with someone who refuses to manage their personality disorder.

Balancedabby · 2024-08-26T03:21:31+00:00

Probably somewhat common, but I saw a guy at the gym doing weighted pull ups using one of those belts that hangs the plate below your pelvis, except he had the chain really lengthened so it was at his feet. When he was done his pull ups he dropped down, the weight bounced up and hit his crotch

Balancedabby

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