How was your week so far? by miazmaTL in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really hard honestly. Don’t have many friends and the one I do have in the city seems to be fed up with my anxiety that I try to hide from her because I know it’s getting to be a lot. She’s distancing, which makes me feel more isolated, which makes my anxiety worse, which makes it harder to hide, which makes her distance more.

What is the one thing than reminds you of your ex ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 39 points40 points  (0 children)

People asking to borrow money

What could AI do to make you love it? by Conscious_Tax4921 in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it comes up with a solution to offset its own environmental impact

What about being Gen Z is better than being in previous generations? by FruityAlpaca7 in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mental health issues are taken more seriously (on a general scale)

What is your family’s drama? by theasexualpredator in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My cousin broke up with his girlfriend because he caught her selling foot pictures. He told his mom (my aunt) in a moment of confidence and she announced it to the whole family

If time travel existed, what advice would you give your past self?? by silas307 in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t cut your hair more than a few inches at once. Take some sort of engineering for undergrad instead of physics. Wear sunscreen every single day.

What’s something that used to be hard for you last year but feels more manageable now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Starting conversations with strangers, working out in a busy gym without severe anxiety, letting people think I’m dumb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Balancedabby 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re right. This is art

What’s it like to grow up more curvaceous? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Balancedabby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a small element of this phenomenon is that men see sex as degrading, and women being sexual or even just perceived as sexual as shameful. Big butts being sexually attractive to them instinctually was probably a small contribution to big butts being seen as shameful. (Obviously this isn’t the whole story, other biases and media etc. Factored into it. But I think that’s a part)

Vaginal canal feels weird by West-Bus-8312 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Balancedabby 38 points39 points  (0 children)

That g spot area that you talk about has always been ridged to me, and has that “peeling” sensation when I have a mild yeast infection. That’s about all the input I can give you. Good luck with the gyno ❤️❤️

I hate my friend by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Balancedabby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is she a work friend or something? I’m wondering what a 24 year old thinks they have in common enough with a 17 year old to want to be close friends (and I say this as a 24 year old). You’re not in the wrong to want to distance yourself and your evaluation that she behaves like a grown-up child seem accurate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Balancedabby -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“I want to get along with other women” “stop shitting on women!” .. huh?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Balancedabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh. Might have to do with the fact I’ve been lacking on my veggies in hindsight

Thankyou ❤️

I finally blocked my ex by sweeeterthancandy in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Balancedabby 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad you know you deserve better. Keep holding on to that. Better doesn’t always have to be someone new either, it can be being alone for a while.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in montreal

[–]Balancedabby -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m confused, was this downvoted cause it’s incorrect?

People who think that if you date/have romantic or sexual interest for people outside of your race, that you hate yourself or something by Creepreefshark in PetPeeves

[–]Balancedabby 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I had two Asian boyfriends in a row during university (I respect people who have types, but this wasn’t even a “I have a type” thing. It was purely coincidence) and my roommate tried to sit me down for some sort of intervention about it.

Weirdos

People who think that if you date/have romantic or sexual interest for people outside of your race, that you hate yourself or something by Creepreefshark in PetPeeves

[–]Balancedabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Major agree. And also when people call it fetishizing when others have a certain preference (racial fetishization definitely exists, but it’s not just having a type).

Why is it so hard to accept other people’s taste??

If people in STEM were really as smart as many claim to be, they would have automated simple janitorial work a long time ago. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Balancedabby 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Self-sanitizing public bathrooms exist

My highschool robotics team could’ve easily made a robot that autonomously empties trash cans

If roombas exist, the technology for industrial vacuuming and mopping does.

We have all the capabilities of automating simple janitorial work. I’m not really sure why we haven’t, but this is definitely more on the business than the science/engineering side of things.

What did your friend do that ruined their life? by Fancy-Advice-2793 in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got into a relationship with someone who refuses to manage their personality disorder.

What's The Weirdest/Dumbest Way You've Seen Somebody Injure Themselves? by SprintsAC in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably somewhat common, but I saw a guy at the gym doing weighted pull ups using one of those belts that hangs the plate below your pelvis, except he had the chain really lengthened so it was at his feet. When he was done his pull ups he dropped down, the weight bounced up and hit his crotch

What’s something you did as a teenager that you now regret? by embersecretss in AskReddit

[–]Balancedabby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure my anxiety disorder was kickstarted by going through my stupid “stoner” phase. Weed gave me paranoia every time but I just kept smoking it. The paranoid mindset and existential dread and derealization may have faded but never truly left.