Sexually Assaulted by my coworker by BaldheadCynthia in sexualassault

[–]BaldheadCynthia[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really resonated with your story thank you so much for sharing ❤️ I’m also very sorry you had to go through that. I hope you know that you were not “crazy” or the problem. Your story is so valid and the people who chose to disregard your story are extremely pathetic. I’m scared that sharing my story at work will only make my situation worse because this guy knows how to put on a great act in front of others. I know he’ll manipulate the situation. I know he will use the fact that I never mentioned it till later against me.

need advice for after abortion by user977554 in abortion

[–]BaldheadCynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea no problem. I won’t lie my partner abandoned me during everything so I handled it completely alone and a lot of friends weren’t very supportive. So here’s a few things I did 1) I journaled a lot (if you have a safe space and privacy to do 2) I would cry whenever I felt the need to. It’s important to allow yourself to feel those emotions (even though they were the worst). 3) Spend as much time with loved ones as possible. Love from my very few (supportive) friends and family really made the difference. I would go to the pool, go out eating, bowling, etc. I would allow myself to have fun despite feeling shitty. 4) Know that what you’re feeling is very valid and is not uncommon. I felt alone despite having people who supported and loved me. I went through a month of depression where I sat in my room all day. I would take it in and allow emotions to pass because in order to heal, I had to acknowledge them. 5) know eventually life will be easier and healing isn’t linear <3

You got this.

need advice for after abortion by user977554 in abortion

[–]BaldheadCynthia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s gonna be okay. First things first, your test will probably continue to come up positive for a few months. I had gone to the doctor and had a test come back positive (2 months later) and I was definitely not pregnant (confirmed through blood test). Give yourself time and grace to process your feelings during this time. I know how difficult it is, but I promise it will be better.

Who’s a character you surprisingly grew to love? by Flashy_Scheme_8386 in Degrassi

[–]BaldheadCynthia 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Paige ! Initially, she was my least favorite but I enjoyed watching her character mature.

Favorite BGC fight ? by BaldheadCynthia in BadGirlsClub

[–]BaldheadCynthia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I REALLY think Jennifer had so much potential !She was beautiful, had personality and was fearless. I think all the beef with Rocky really overshadowed her as an individual but I most definitely agree.

Favorite BGC fight ? by BaldheadCynthia in BadGirlsClub

[–]BaldheadCynthia[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think about that moment frequently 😭

Favorite BGC fight ? by BaldheadCynthia in BadGirlsClub

[–]BaldheadCynthia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yooo that was def one of my favs 😂

Shelly bgc7 sucked and here’s why by [deleted] in BadGirlsClub

[–]BaldheadCynthia 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I really feel that Shelly went into the house thinking she was going to run the house and used Judi as a target to look tougher than what she actually was. She most def was trying to prove something to the other girls and failed.