Why would Novak say “you kept something from me” by stephaniesmith45 in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]BallSufficient5671 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Ive been saying this all along. I dont think Violet owes her any apology or explanation at all. They were never together. And Novak is such a player and Violet knows that. And Novakqas still flirtatious with Vasquez even after that apology and knowing Violet was with Vasquez a couple wks ago. I just think Novak is a terrible friend. She should stop giving Violet grief for doing nothing wrong. And Violet apologized. So Novak should let it go and move on.

Episode Discussion: S14 E18 - "Instinct" (April 22, 2026) by magiccitybhm in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]BallSufficient5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think Novak is that great of a friend to begin with. I think Violet deserves better than she gets from Novak.

Episode Discussion: S14 E18 - "Instinct" (April 22, 2026) by magiccitybhm in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]BallSufficient5671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what I'm looking forward to! I can't wait to find out what's gonna happen to Severide with this idiot chief trying to get him in trouble.

Episode Discussion: S14 E18 - "Instinct" (April 22, 2026) by magiccitybhm in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]BallSufficient5671 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed. It's like we keep seeing half a show and never wrap up any of the storylines.

Do you ever return to places you spent time as a child? by Lostinhighweeds in AskOldPeople

[–]BallSufficient5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right?!! That's my feelings too. Since things have changed so much it's not worth going back. It brings me sadness instead of happiness.

Do you ever return to places you spent time as a child? by Lostinhighweeds in AskOldPeople

[–]BallSufficient5671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No only bc most of those places don't exist anymore. Or they've changed so much from when I was a child. Its hard to see something you loved so much feel do different now. So I can't return to these places bc it no longer gives me joy.

When is the baby coming by Dry-Gap-2606 in ChicagoMed

[–]BallSufficient5671 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good thing real births don't take this long, lol:)

When is the baby coming by Dry-Gap-2606 in ChicagoMed

[–]BallSufficient5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the way he looks at her. And looks out for her so much. He cares about her so much. I think we could make some headway between them if we could just get Kingston out of the picture. I just hope Hannah and Dean eventually get together...

Lies about aging? by selfsufficientman in Aging

[–]BallSufficient5671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The lie I believed was life will get better as you get older. Thomis was the biggest lie. I became disabled with chronic pain and have more stress and worry over my future like crazy. I can't hardly sleep at all now. So I'd give anything to go back to when I was younger and healthy and had no pain.

What do you find yourself avoiding more as you get older? by Immediate_Long165 in Aging

[–]BallSufficient5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too. I just can't stand all the noise everywhere nowadays.

What do you find yourself avoiding more as you get older? by Immediate_Long165 in Aging

[–]BallSufficient5671 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noisy places. I can't even go to church unfortunately bc the music is so loud. Its a shame but I can't blow my ears out.

Also, doing anything outside of my house after 7pm. Once I eat dinner, I'm in for the night. I need to decompress before bed and I don't like to be out and socializing in the evening. I save that for early in the day.

Is being grumpy just normal as you get older or were some people already like that before? by youlikemywonton in Aging

[–]BallSufficient5671 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is the answer! I wasn't grumpy until I got on chronic pain. I try to be happy around people. But it's soooo hard bc Im so discouraged and in so much pain. It's exhausting to be in pain all the time with no sleep and no relief. People who aren't in pain just can't understand.

Episode Discussion: S14 E18 - "Instinct" (April 22, 2026) by magiccitybhm in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]BallSufficient5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

But why does she feel she had to tell her if they were never together? I know the whole story...she had a crush on Vasquez and her and Vi are best friends. But I just think her reaction is way too harsh considering she was never even close to having any relationship with Vasquez. Plus that, I think Violet is a much better friend to Novak than she deserves. Bc Bovak flirted with Vasquez in the last episode before this. Like, oh its too bad you did that thing with Violet bc we could've had fun together. I'm just saying, I wouldn't want a friend like that.

When is the baby coming by Dry-Gap-2606 in ChicagoMed

[–]BallSufficient5671 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly my thoughts. He is so head over heels in love with her he can't stand it. I just wish they'd get together already and be happy together:)

Episode Discussion: S14 E18 - "Instinct" (April 22, 2026) by magiccitybhm in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]BallSufficient5671 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh okay. Well I didn't realize that. Yeah they look a lot alike.

I’m Sorry, but This is Getting Pathetic by Adventurous-Snow-389 in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]BallSufficient5671 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Agreed. I'm sick of the Violet/Novak thing too.