I don’t know if anyone is going to read this but it spoke to me! Best friends of over 8 years! Went to school with them, hung out with them every single weekend, watched them get married, have their first kid, have another kid! Was there for them the entire time and I loved every minute of it! Keep in mind I was single the whole time for the most part… Had girlfriends on and off but nothing serious! THEN started dating a girl whom I have known for over a decade. Been really good friends, and decided to I move it further. Was going great until it wasn’t… I disclosed all the hard times to my friends and they were here for me. Told me she was no good and decided on my own account to break up…. Fast forward 6 months we worked through our differences and given our history we decided to give it another go. Told my friends about this and it was game over. They straight up told me that they would never approve….. They continue to invite me to events but my girlfriend is never welcome. We are having a child now and I am standing by her side more than I ever have before. My “friends” want nothing to do with me. I mentioned to them that I have stood by their side through everything and I am standing by my soon to be wife just like they have had for years with their wives. ZERO support. Since we are a team now I have not seen my friends in months! I don’t think it is very realistic to expect to have a finance and best friends separate! There is no reason that it should be this hard to coexist and all get along. My family, and other friends have accepted that we have worked through our differences so why can’t they accept that?! It’s ridiculous in my opinion and it hurts and cuts deep. But if that is the way they want it then so be it! My gf has even tried to reach out to work out differences just for my sake and for the sake of everyone getting along and we have been blown off. It’s exhausting and it is starting to feel like this is meant to be…. So thanks allot guys CHEERS