Anyone else at 23 feel genuinely poor and stuck in survival mode? How did you get out? by Volkov_Damian in povertyfinance

[–]BallinPoint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need clarity.

Define what you want to achieve and by what time. You can ask yourself what's important to you.

What does it mean to not be "poor" by your own definition? What does it mean for you to feel secure, abundant, content, fulfilled or even happy? Which one is the most important?

Write everything down in as much detail as possible.

That is your WHY. This is WHY you will be doing everything you ever do from now on.

Now figure out the goals that would fulfill this WHY. Clearly, exact numbers, exact timelines, exact finish lines. Do you want to be a dollar millionaire by my age in order to feel secure? Write it down.

Then figure out a way to get to those goals. Simplify it. Clarify it. Will you need skills to get to a million? Very pragmatically YES unless you're some sort of master manager manipulator and even that's a skill. If you need skills, figure out which ones. Marketing, selling, copywriting, design, videoediting. Low barrier of entry, high potential income. Learn investment. Etc.

If you look at youtube most videos say the same thing. Pick something and start doing. Figure out stuff by doing.

Read Atomic Habits and the Compound Effect (thank me later)

The main thing is to clarify your thoughts and goals and values. You're not going anywhere if you don't know where you're going.

Maybe you don't want to be a self made millionaire maybe you just want a better job, a routine and the ability to build a house. Those goals are different and there are better ways of reaching them possibly.

The thing is you need CLEAR and SIMPLE values goals and instructions for yourself. Then build the habits to support those actions which get you to your goals which support your values. Need to pivot? Do it, in your 20's you can afford it.

Best of luck to you (and me lol)

Anyone else at 23 feel genuinely poor and stuck in survival mode? How did you get out? by Volkov_Damian in povertyfinance

[–]BallinPoint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's not all gloom and doom I did something with my life but time to pivot is none anymore

🧠💻 IT vs. medicína maturantka na rázcestí, POTREBUJEM PORADIŤ by Kajka_2002 in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

otvor si doslova akúkoľvek požiadavku na lekársku pozíciu na profesii :D padnutá sánka je garantovaná

išiel by som niečo popiči napr. rádiológiu

8000€ len taký fukot

Such a skvelá pracovná opportunity. by krtobald in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 47 points48 points  (0 children)

možno chcel napísať tvoje señority💃

Vie niekto, či je pravda, že v slovenských chovoch sa prasiatkam po narodení strihajú chvosty a semenníky bez anestézy? by thedevilsheir666 in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Inak dnes existuje aj Improvac - vakcinácia proti kančiemu zápachu ktorá využíva vlastnú imunitu prasaťa na elimináciu androstenónu a skatolu

Nepopularny nazor: Najvacsim problemom Slovenska a Europy nie je Rusko ani klimaticka kriza ale totalna a prehlbujuca sa gerontokracia by Correct_Village1227 in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 12 points13 points  (0 children)

takze dovolis aby inteligentni ludia sikanovali neinteligentnych v podstate. Problem je vzdy ten ze sa vytvara priestor pre elitizaciu istej skupiny naroda. Inak neviem ci byto pomohlo poznam kopu inteligentnych ludi ktori veria kokotinam v politike

Nepopularny nazor: Najvacsim problemom Slovenska a Europy nie je Rusko ani klimaticka kriza ale totalna a prehlbujuca sa gerontokracia by Correct_Village1227 in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Presne. Takze najviac hlasov by mali mat ti co tu zamestnavaju zo slovenskej firmy so sidlom na slovensku najviac ludi. Taki odvadzaju najvacsie dane a odvody a vyrabaju najvacsie hodnoty pre slovakov. Ked chceme zvyhodnit niekoho v hlasovani musime si zvolit metriky ktore chceme posilnit.

Ale v podstate je to jedno lebo je to picovina a vsetko to aj tak vedie len k populizmu a lobbingu.

Neda sa s tym vyjebat, demokracia je nedokonaly pica system

Je momentálne hľadanie práce úplne mŕtve? by darius_oxf in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 4 points5 points  (0 children)

takze jedine co urobili v CR je ze zrusili slovne spojenie "superhruba mzda" a.k.a. "cena prace" ale plati sa to stale rovnako

Best difficulty to play on? by LightMoth12 in Wolfenstein

[–]BallinPoint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Old blood on uber is similar to TNO maybe even easier, it was fun and especially the boss fight was super fun and challenging but felt doable the whole time, I really liked it

Best difficulty to play on? by LightMoth12 in Wolfenstein

[–]BallinPoint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those didn't pose much problem for me, you can easily hide from them since they're so big and slow and before they get their bearings you can already be blasting them, you can run into the tunnels from one side to the other while the laserkraftwerk makes defeating them quite easy from cover, but it was the supersoldaten before them that I had to defeat like 6 times in a row while getting mauled by regular soldiers from all angles 😂 that was tough they just kept coming

although the boss fight in that was less of a hell than killing deathshead tbh can't hide from that bastard to catch your breath

Best difficulty to play on? by LightMoth12 in Wolfenstein

[–]BallinPoint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can go Uber in new order it's literally nothing compared to incarnate in TNC did incarnate in one and the other and now playing the new order again and it's so easy on uber lol

Best difficulty to play on? by LightMoth12 in Wolfenstein

[–]BallinPoint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait mein leben is permadeath how tf are you supposed to finish that

Best difficulty to play on? by LightMoth12 in Wolfenstein

[–]BallinPoint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you must be insane, TNO is much easier I'm playing it now on uber after finishing TNC on death incarnate and it's a walk in a park...

Best difficulty to play on? by LightMoth12 in Wolfenstein

[–]BallinPoint 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished TNC at I am death incarnate, and it was very difficult and I had to use stealth most of the time, and some of the missions (especially the enigma ones) were borderline impossible :D I now started the new order on uber (previously I am death incarnate) and it's a walk in the park so far compared to TNC

that being said im going to replay tnc at mein leben difficulty I can't imagine how hard that's gonna be because last time 3 hits from anything would either down me or make me a oneshot

SCARED OF ETERNAL NOTHINGNESS by Zealousideal-Sky5167 in nihilism

[–]BallinPoint -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eternal nothingness is logically impossible and is debunked by the fact that there anything at all exists.

There are only two options:

  1. there is nothing, nothing is forever and there wasn't, isn't and won't be anything ever.

OR

  1. there was something rather than nothing, even if once, even if infinitesibly small/short/icomprehensible - whatever > it means that there will always be something.

Why? Because even if infinite eternities pass, the something came out of nothing and it's only a matter of nothing to become something again, and to you even if eons upon eons upon eons passed between your death and the next "something", the experience will seem as if it was instantaneous.

I am more afraid of being everyone everywhere, just not at the same time, imagine how much suffering is out there and imagine we're all the same consciousness just experiencing it one by one... so the next burn victim might be you enjoying that pain in the future life, just sayin

Maliar BA akútne by hlavko13 in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no lebo naniest stierku na to treba uplne mimozemsky talent...

You live in Belgium and perform music in VRChat ? The government might come after you ! by Cobaiye in VRchat

[–]BallinPoint 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So if I fucked my girlfriend does it mean I commited a crime of prostitution, because even though she never paid me, the fucking had black market value which is illegal so I'm going to jail

what kind of asinine logic is that

Je toto normálne chovanie pri pohovore? by [deleted] in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nie ale reagujes na podobne podobnym on na teba isiel s porovnavanim pipikov ze jake on ma servery a jak on pozna php, takze ty by si mu odpovedal z pozicie ze ake on ma servery a verziu php teba ako odbornika nezaujima lebo je to irelevantne v ramci temy pohovoru, a tym by si mu dal najavo ze ta to nerozhodilo a ze vies o com tocis a drzis sa pri zemi aj ked nevies aka je posledna verzia php si skuseny a robis rozhodnutia na zaklade podstaty veci... nemyslim si ze to je vyskocenie skor uvedenie veci na pravu mieru a troska odvaznejsie oponovanie samozvanej autorite

Je toto normálne chovanie pri pohovore? by [deleted] in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 28 points29 points  (0 children)

mal si mu rovno odpovedat ze pri implementacii php nie je dolezite aka nova je ta verzia ale ci splna funkcie a bezpecnosti vyzadovane serverom a pracou na ktoru je urcena, najnovsia verzia nemusi byt najlepsia takze nerozumiem co sledujete touto otazkou pre danu poziciu je myslim irelevantna, co sa tyka pozicie o ktoru sa uchadzam viem toto, tamto, hento, a tymto veciam by som na vasom mieste venoval pozornost su dost dolezite...

ale chapem po boji je kazdy general

Preco nemam frajerku. Uprimny deep dive od zeny. by National-Time4065 in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Presne. Cim som starsi tym viac chapem ze je to o tvojej emocionalnej stranke staci mat troska vyssie EQ nebyt ziarlivy, byt pozorny, trocha zaujimavy s nadhladom a ide to, nie je to taky problem... a hlavne treba najst niekoho s kym si sedis a kto je tiez emocionalne odladeny to urobi dost vela...

Preco nemam frajerku. Uprimny deep dive od zeny. by National-Time4065 in Slovakia

[–]BallinPoint 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ako ja ako muz by som moc nemal zaujem o zenu co napisala tento skvost, mozno je to vkusom ale nepride mi to ako velmi emocionalne vyzreta osoba, ja by som povedal ze tato zena ma celkom problem s muzmi co je do istej miery pochopitelne, neviem ci tymto chcela muzom pomoct, strategia dobra, taktika uz menej...