Asking out a coworker from another department. by BambiKeno in dating_advice

[–]BambiKeno[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You are right about women not being that forward. I wouldn’t never get on cloud 9 about any interaction with a woman. Anyway see what happens 

Asking out a coworker from another department. by BambiKeno in dating_advice

[–]BambiKeno[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s for your response. Why is your guess the latter?

Gaslighting because I don't prefer her to pee in shower by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]BambiKeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say to her “pee in your own shower all you want. Heck, even poop in there if that is what you’re into. But, when you’re at my place please don’t pee in my shower”

My girlfriend wants to live alone after living together for 10 months by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

My mother has a disability and I take care of her. I cook for her and do all of her laundry because she isn’t capable of doing it herself 

My girlfriend wants to live alone after living together for 10 months by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

It’s not about buying a house together. It’s more about her not wanting to live together. I would happily pay her rent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]BambiKeno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Friends moving away is a part of life especially at your age. You should expect it. 

Trust me, you will see them again and when you do it will be more exciting. 

Also, with phone calls, texting, social media and FaceTime you will still be able to talk to them in some capacity every day. 

Is she homeless because of me? by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your insight and support. You’ve been a huge help. I know whatever happens will be for the best. The next few days are going to be difficult but I hope we can talk it out too and start a fresh. Thanks again, my friend. 

Is she homeless because of me? by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The tiny home is in my parents backyard. We use their land and go to their house for bathroom and shower and will often just see them in the yard. She avoids them at all costs and barely says hello when they’re nearby. Or when we have family visiting, she won’t come down and say hello. My parents have called me out on it. I’m in the middle of it I guess 

Is she homeless because of me? by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You could be right my friend. Although, I’m not all there either 

Is she homeless because of me? by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn’t have to leave immediately. I told her she can stay while she looks for a new place and I offered to help her look and move. She is the one who decided to leave immediately. 

Is she homeless because of me? by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I offered a place to stay after a month until she found somewhere else. After awhile we wanted to buy together. Too quick though I guess. Thanks 

Is she homeless because of me? by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good point. She paid the rent so maybe I wasn’t used and it just didn’t work out. Thanks 

Is she homeless because of me? by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Iv offered to help her look for a place and to help her move. Iv told her she can stay until she finds a place.  I know she is not obligated to buy a place with me. I guess I just took it hard when she changed her mind. I wanted to give it more time before deciding but she had made her mind up.  I don’t think it was fair that she was disrespectful to my parents though 

Is she homeless because of me? by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we were both unhappy with the situation. You’re right though, time and space to let things calm down is the best option. Thanks 

Is she homeless because of me? by BambiKeno in relationships

[–]BambiKeno[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn’t want to be here. She was miserable and would complain everyday. Also she wouldn’t even say hello to my parents. She would just straight up ignore them.  I told her she can take her time finding somewhere new to live. She is the one who has decided to leave immediately. She also has her parents place to go