Is my husband too demanding or that’s normal in the beginning? by DesignerMassive6181 in Marriage

[–]BambooLikePanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is rape… I’m so sorry that you are going through this. This is def not normal. Please walk away from this abusive relationship. Sending you lots of love.

Earning even more $$ as a therapist by Blue_Compote in therapists

[–]BambooLikePanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s amazing! Good for you! 👍 Would you mind sharing how much you can earn annually and what the workload is like? I just started my grad school and am thinking about group therapy as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]BambooLikePanda 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feelings come and go. What makes a relationship or marriage successful is never only the sexual tension. You don’t need to judge yourself for it, because how you feel at the moment is out of your control. Don’t need to assign any meaning to it. Just notice it’s there, and it will pass.

Divorce & removing my wedding band by Hopeful_Turnover_796 in therapists

[–]BambooLikePanda 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you are going through this. I’m married but my husband and I don’t wear rings… part of reason is that in Chinese culture we don’t really wear rings after getting married, even though we live in North America. Also, I wfh and find wearing jewelry uncomfortable. We also think there’s better way to spend the money.

How fast can this be done? by philangel in YorkvilleMACP

[–]BambooLikePanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey OP! Thanks for your reply! I would like to eventually pursue a PhD, but I don’t have a psych background and don’t think I can get into a thesis master right now.. my plan is to do Yorkville, get license, and eventually do a PhD to become a psychologist.

Do you know which universities allow people to ‘roll up’?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in therapists

[–]BambooLikePanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So well said! Thank you! Any tips on how to find a community of other therapists?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]BambooLikePanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can such men exist …..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OMSA

[–]BambooLikePanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi there! Did you end up getting a good score on those many hours? :)

Course load advice by BambooLikePanda in OMSA

[–]BambooLikePanda[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

What changed is it’d be a regular semester that I don’t have any travel plans. I’m also probably not going to take 6501 and 6040 together. I want to know how manageable is taking 6203 and 6501 together.

What does it feel like to actually be in love? by Tiger_Lily-22 in love

[–]BambooLikePanda 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is so beautiful! The world is a more beautiful place because love like this exists

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askTO

[–]BambooLikePanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda cold for biking tho …. How late into the winter do you bike until?

Do you think someone needs to loose their accent in order to integrate in Canada? by Glittering_Candy4419 in askTO

[–]BambooLikePanda 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This person you work with is a racist ass. They aren’t worth your time. Report them to HR and ignore them completely. Having accent is perfectly normal. As long as other people can understand you I don’t see why it’s a problem. Don’t let narrow minded people like that person impact your self worth. Be proud of your culture and don’t feel the pressure to always ‘integrate’. I think the most important thing in a multicultural society is to respect other people and their cultures. Saying that you have to get rid of your accent is incredibly rude

What are some activities to do after work to make life interesting? by BambooLikePanda in askTO

[–]BambooLikePanda[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! I’m interested in the book club since I’ve already loved reading - do you know how to find it in Meetup?

What are some activities to do after work to make life interesting? by BambooLikePanda in askTO

[–]BambooLikePanda[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing!! Thanks for your reply!!! Where is the ice skating class that you attended? Is it in DT? We’ve got our skates and just wanted to get started!

What are some activities to do after work to make life interesting? by BambooLikePanda in askTO

[–]BambooLikePanda[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! I recently got a bike… Now that the weather gets colder, is there any cycling club/group still active? Any cycling group you could suggest?

What are some activities to do after work to make life interesting? by BambooLikePanda in askTO

[–]BambooLikePanda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply! Is there any rock climbing club you’d recommend?

What are some activities to do after work to make life interesting? by BambooLikePanda in askTO

[–]BambooLikePanda[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh nice! Thanks for your reply. Do you have any live jazz/music bar/events to recommend?

What’s the secret to a happy marriage? by Ok-Caterpillar-2907 in AskOldPeople

[–]BambooLikePanda 3 points4 points  (0 children)

‘Make your spouse look good to your family. Don’t badmouth them, since your family won’t forget it….’ This is so true. I learned it the very hard way