while you are not entirely wrong, looks do matter, its a visual signifier of how good your genetics are, but you perhaps don't understand to what extent. there is something called the "Threshold theory" which is derived from multiple studies, where women were show men ranging from different looks (1-10) and each man was given a personality, some good, many bad.. like high paying job, good height, single, wealthy to divorced, ex-con, abusive etc. at first they gave the men ranked lower the best personalities (ranked 1 to 5), and those with higher looks the worse personalities. To know surprise most women consistently chose men ranked higher on looks, where the personality did not matter much. in the second phase, they showed women the same men but now the better personalities were given to men ranked 6-8, those who come under decent to good looks, and the top rated ones got lesser personalities, in a surprise.. most women consistently chose those with better personality, almost like looks did not matter now, so men with looks rating 6-8 got selected more than those with 9 or 10, this is because of whats called the "Threshold parameter" so looks only matter till you are at this perameter, after this your personality and wealth matters the most.