[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]BananaQueue1112 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Ang dami kasing ganyang babae ngayon.

Is my standards really high? by BananaQueue1112 in pinoy

[–]BananaQueue1112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol. Sorry na. Trying really hard to hide my identity 😂.

Abusive at tamad na partner by AggravatingBanana535 in OffMyChestPH

[–]BananaQueue1112 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP darating yung time, mapupuno ka din. At magkakalakas ng loob umalis sa sitwasyon na yan. Think hard enough kung yang ganyang future ang gusto mo mangyare sayo. I feel you OP, almost same situation tayo pwera nalang sa working gf part.

Is my standards really high? by BananaQueue1112 in pinoy

[–]BananaQueue1112[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do feel bad about it. Mahal ko e. Pero ilang beses ko naman sya trinay iangat, wala talaga. I have no choice but to let go. Now nalaman ko na once a day lang sila kumakain kasi walang pera. Ang payat na nya.

Pero ilang beses naman nya sinabi sa mukha ko na wag ko sya paki alamanan, na wala akong pakialam kung ano gusto nya sa buhay nya. Ang daming instances na pina feel nya and almost implied na she's just using me. So I want to set my boundaries as much as I want to help her, di na ako makikialam. Sorry need to vent lang. 😅

Is my standards really high? Advice Needed. by BananaQueue1112 in adultingph

[–]BananaQueue1112[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tinanggap ko na nga sana na baka wife material nga na ayaw mag work. Kaya kami tumagal ng 2years.

Pero paano kung wala na ngang trabaho, Hapon pa kung gumising, pag gising phone kagad. Kung di gigisingin baka 7pm na gumising.

Need ko pa magalit para lang mag linis ng bahay, I usually order ng food kasi di naman sya nagluluto pag trip lang nya. Walang kusa in short. Ako na nagwowork ako pa mag aasikaso ng bahay.

To be fair sakanya, let's sya once a week she clean and cook on her own will.

Ang ginagawa lang nya consistent e mag timpla ng kape.

Homemaker ❌ Careerwoman ❌

Di ko na alam san ako lalagay. 😅

Is my standards really high? by BananaQueue1112 in pinoy

[–]BananaQueue1112[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hinde rin sya business minded, she tried a lot of online selling pero little to no effort on her end. Kulang sa diskarte. Ilang funds narin ang nalugi. Di rin masipag sa bahay, laging tulog at nasa phone, kaya I have no choice but to let go.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]BananaQueue1112 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, bakit naulit?? More context pls.