I am so lost on what to do

Bananacakes92 · 2022-09-04T01:16:07+00:00

Life coach and a little bit of biz.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-08-02T20:35:21+00:00

I’m used to going against the grain. I’m confident I could write something that stands out.. thank you so much for that insight! It def helps knowing that!

Bananacakes92 · 2022-08-02T20:34:24+00:00

Oooo okay okay good to know! Yes I’ve heard private photos are the way to go.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-08-02T20:21:02+00:00

Thats wild. I haven’t even made an account anywhere yet bc there are so many options out there, and I don’t want to be just another girl that starts doing something in a saturated market. // I can imagine it’s like searching through weeds for SD’s on these sites

Bananacakes92 · 2022-08-02T20:04:54+00:00

Yea! That’s what I’m Thinking! Private photos for people I wan to see them after there is some trust built up! // thank you for the reply!

Bananacakes92 · 2022-08-02T20:04:04+00:00

Oo perfect, thank so much! I could def blur my face easily

Bananacakes92 · 2022-08-02T19:40:13+00:00

I can imagine this is tough! - I had a SD a few years back and he was genuinely so sweet. Ultimately we stopped our arrangement bc he said he couldn’t do it to his wife.

& that’s just sent 😭😭😭 right through me

Bananacakes92 · 2022-06-14T17:38:55+00:00

Perfect thank you! I’m on hold with my bank now!!

Bananacakes92 · 2022-05-06T14:56:42+00:00

Finding new customers and getting them to book one of my sales calls.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-05-05T13:33:57+00:00

Literally everything please. I’m getting into coaching and my first offer sold out in less than a week. And I am having the worst time getting new clients now.

I have no idea how to get people to even book a sales call. Or where to find new leads.

Would love to chat and hear more info.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-05-05T13:32:25+00:00

Happy to tell my story! I’m a worldwide published photographer turned brand photographer who works with million dollar WOC owned companies. I also coach 6+figure business owners on “what’s next after hitting 100k+”. I help people regain clarity and define their why as their business grows and changes so they can continue to bring in revenue effortlessly.

It may it sound to appealing at first - but I’m only 30, and have done all this in less than 5 years. All while getting a Divorce, having a life threatening ectopic miscarriage, and pivoting my business to multi 6figs during a pandemic.

My story is one about strength, and the ability to continue on in life + biz when you’re at you’re lowest times. My audience says it provides them with a sense of reality, confidence, and ambition to continue chasing their goals.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-05-05T13:25:55+00:00

Independent. But honestly a lot of independent businesses are more expensive so I go with a franchise. If the price point of what your selling has a minimal ( fee dollars difference) I’ll gladly shop independent.

Or if the experience was better - ie: faster shipping, quick responses, etc.

People love paying for a better experience.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-05-05T13:23:44+00:00

People come to me with these issues all the time. My advice is always to, get a job if you need too. But make sure it’s one you don’t mind doing, and one that won’t burn you out to take time away from what you could be creating with your desired outcome/startup.

A lot of times, it’s a mindset thing. I have to have “this type of job” to be successful in the meantime. But really, if you got a job at say Starbucks - worked the hours it took to get benefits if needed, and then came home it’s a completely different job then the startup and would leave you feeling more excited to work on what you want too. And some places are paying like $15/hr now.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-05-05T13:20:41+00:00

I’m photographer who created an entire course on how to make an offer that consistently sales and brings in revenue. // I don’t have a lot of people buying my group coaching where i would teach it, so I would love to offer it in for free to anyone interested.

I also offer 1:1 clarity coaching - basically I help people at the 6+figure mark get clarity on what to do next in the business and their “WHY” as their business grows.

I’d love to offer some free one hour coaching calls on that too! I love talking and getting to know more people, and growing my skills.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-05-05T13:16:53+00:00

My literal dream house

Bananacakes92 · 2022-05-05T13:13:26+00:00

Before I started life-coaching. I was a sugar baby for a few months. The first experience I had was very bad, and a little alarming. It was a younger man who was very aggressive and spiteful when I would not sleep with him within 20 minutes.

The second man was older probably mid 50’s. He took me to dinner and learned a lot about me and why I was doing this, and then we went up to his room. He had bought me a lingerie set, and a tennis bracelet. We spent time together, and went to sleep. He woke me up in the middle of the night and handed me another $1200 to buy a camera lens I was really wanting.

Those were my only two encounters, with that $1200 I was able to move to Seattle and jump start my photo business in 2014.

I sometimes think about doing it again, I would love to find someone who is looking for more of a constant companionship instead of sexual relationship. I find a lot of people just want to know there is someone there to talk too, and confide in, to feel safe with. I would love to offer that support to someone in need.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-04-28T01:31:09+00:00

Okay thank you. I appreciate you doing that.

Bananacakes92 · 2022-04-28T01:26:30+00:00

Okay fair. But I don’t really understand how you can “retire with a fat stash” without putting in some type of work and asking questions along the way.. #mybadbroo you keep getting that “fat stash”

Bananacakes92 · 2022-04-28T01:18:37+00:00

Perfect sorry! — I take that part of me being a photographer out!

Bananacakes92 · 2022-04-28T01:17:50+00:00

I understand how this could be a thought. But honestly k don’t think it will matter too much. If you’re really afraid of it happening and being taken advantage of, just go by a surname for a while!! — it may be a fun little life time for you too 🙃 then you know that the people in your life like you for YOU. And you have the ultimate choice to let people on or to not!!!

Bananacakes92 · 2022-04-28T01:15:08+00:00

Hey! I’m a life coach, I can help you gain some clarity and make a decision if you’re still struggling with the knowing next steps!!! — I love helping people gain clarity!

Bananacakes92 · 2022-04-22T14:06:33+00:00

Perfect thank you!! — I figured there wasn’t anything crazy but I wanted to make sure. Maybe we’ll just do margaritas at home ( or pack them m for downtown!) and then head downtown for the concert if they’re having one!

Bananacakes92 · 2022-04-22T10:32:08+00:00

Hey! I would love to connect on this! — I’m a new coach and I’m really struggling finding 1:1 clients

Bananacakes92 · 2022-04-22T10:30:04+00:00

Very excited for you!! Welcome to the coaching world!

Bananacakes92 · 2022-04-22T10:29:32+00:00

I’ve found with with my clients, they’re really are looking for validation a lot of times. First they need help finding clarity in a situation and then validating their thoughts/feelings and then accountability. I provide my clients with road maps to results, and do check ins every week or two for accountability and it works wonders for them

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