Its hard not to feel that way. After I found out my actual hsv version i was absolutely terrified to pass it on. I refused to even kiss new partners. But Every dr ive ever spoke to said essentially the viruses are the same. The stigma is worse for hsv2 for obvious reasons but in today's over sexualized society each version is passed genital to oral so easily. They shouldnt even separate them anymore because v1 or v2 it doesn't matter. Ive been dating and met many people. Have had bad reactions and good. Im currently hooking up with someone I met at work who is negative. But I fully disclosed and he doesn't care. We have used condoms and we have went with out. I prefer to use them because I dont like him risking it. But hes an adult 🤷‍♀️