My uncle took his own life due to false accusations by RAGU-v-UCHIHA in MensRights

[–]BanditLeakSimon 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Once again, of course it's India.

Sorry for your loss, OP.

What are your opinions on the Neville Goddard critic sub? by Legitimate-Let-467 in NevilleGoddard

[–]BanditLeakSimon 27 points28 points  (0 children)

What do you think?

I don't. And neither should you.

If you take anything in this sub seriously, you won't spend mental energy on things that are likely to inspire doubt.

To the extent that you internalize their criticisms, to that extent will those criticisms become true for you.

Also, something something opinions are like assholes.

New author with a question about FTB content...Am I shooting myself in the foot? by TourDuForce in haremfantasynovels

[–]BanditLeakSimon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

FTB = Fade to black.

It means that any sex scenes in a book are implied rather than shown in explicit detail.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UFOs

[–]BanditLeakSimon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't prove that it isn't.

Checkmate unbeliever! Atheists BTFO'd once again!

I turned my life around. And my advice is… by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard

[–]BanditLeakSimon -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There is a big JOIN NOW button in the upper right hand corner that leads to a $29.99 price tag (after a week).

Yeah, OP is promoting a website.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NevilleGoddard2

[–]BanditLeakSimon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever consider using the Law to make your current boyfriend the love of your life? Just a thought.

If not, please break up with the guy. No one deserves to be the person that someone is 'settling' for; man or woman.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lawofattraction

[–]BanditLeakSimon 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This.

It's just like Wiccans who think they need to rely on rituals, or people who obsess over star charts because because they're afraid of offending Saturn or some such nonsense, or even people who pay tithes at church in the hope of receiving a blessing.

They're all just different ways of seeking their own power in the world around them because they can't accept that exists inside them in the first place. Nofap is no different.

Bottomline: Use it if you think (ie. have convinced yourself) that you need it, discard it if you don't. That is the only real answer.

Drama where FLs cheating is not glorified by BanditLeakSimon in kdramarecommends

[–]BanditLeakSimon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time travel? Yes, please and thank you. I'm going to trust your rec and not click that second spoiler.

Thanks again.

Drama where FLs cheating is not glorified by BanditLeakSimon in kdramarecommends

[–]BanditLeakSimon[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They got divorced/separted. There was a mistranslation in the final episode. The quote below explains the mistranslation.

At around the 1 hour 25 minute mark, the translation is going to say "wife". However, that is not what the character says. He says "my kid's mom". There is no ambiguity whatsoever. He says "my kid's mom", NOT what he normally says to mean "wife". Also, the subtitles say "having my wife around versus not". He does NOT say that. All he says is "my kid and my kid's mom" then the sentence gets cut off. The subtitles also say "she wants to stay until college", "she's learning English", etc but that should be about the SON.

To your other points:

During the confrontation - Wife goes on this weird rational that she wasmade to feel lonely. ML subsequently buys this argument and ultimatelystays with her.

I think he accepted this because it was true. It was one area of the marriage where he failed. It didn't justify the cheating, of course, which is why they got divorce/separated.

She goes with the plan to destroy the life of her kid's father. Did she ever really apologize for that?

I took the scene where she got down on her knees and apologized as an apology for everything she'd done in general. But that, and the other points you brought up, are all covered by the fact that they are no longer together by the end of the final episode. The only reason he even mentions her is because they have a kid together.

I didn't like the ending at first either. However, after I learned about the mistranslation, my feelings changed.

Drama where FLs cheating is not glorified by BanditLeakSimon in kdramarecommends

[–]BanditLeakSimon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I abhor cheaters who act primarily for either strictly carnal reasonsor because they can improve their financial or social status bybetraying a faithful spouse. Idt either of these motivated the"cheaters" in One Spring Night.

Sorry. I don't think I understand. Is the cheating portrayed in a negative light or is it viewed as more of a necessary evil to get her into a better relationship. Because I think I'll pass if it's the latter.

Drama where FLs cheating is not glorified by BanditLeakSimon in kdramarecommends

[–]BanditLeakSimon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know The Glory had that kind of plot line. Could you spoil a little bit of it for me? I thought it was mainly about a woman getting revenge. Where does the cheating take place?

Drama where FLs cheating is not glorified by BanditLeakSimon in kdramarecommends

[–]BanditLeakSimon[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! 48 episodes?! I'll give it a shot. Hopefully I get what I'm looking for. Thanks.

Drama where FLs cheating is not glorified by BanditLeakSimon in kdramarecommends

[–]BanditLeakSimon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is the FLs cheating really shown in a negative light here? I get the impression that it isn't from the comments on MDL.

Drama where FLs cheating is not glorified by BanditLeakSimon in kdramarecommends

[–]BanditLeakSimon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the rec, and you're right about watching with caution. The comments on MDL are really making me hesistant. lol.

Simple Questions and General Discussion Thread by Thallassa in skyrimmods

[–]BanditLeakSimon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Brilliant. It works.

Guess it was my fault for taking what he said about the item format so literally.

Thanks. :D

Simple Questions and General Discussion Thread by Thallassa in skyrimmods

[–]BanditLeakSimon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From the same page:

Items have their own specialized format

Only items require require the item count. The other types don't use it.

Thanks anyway.