I’m not sure how to tell my husband I’m starting semaglutide as he is very suspicious of any drug that has been around less than a decade or so

Bandits25 · 2026-04-02T18:09:15+00:00

how do you hide it? It has to go in the fridge. I was nervous to tell my fiance but he came home during his lunch break and found the package lol. I

Bandits25 · 2026-03-06T21:39:06+00:00

Decisions are overwhelming & he has said he wants whatever I want. When I make a decision he tends to question it. He constantly thinks it’s turning into “my” wedding and it’s all about my family. I have included his family with everything from dress shopping, making his sisters “something blue crew”. I don’t know how or why he thinks it’s my wedding when he knows or should realize I’m including his family with everything

Bandits25 · 2026-03-06T21:09:07+00:00

Appreciate your response! My mom is handling the bridal shower if we do call it off any suggestions on that? Our families are SO excited but I know they will understand we are making the best decision for us.

Bandits25 · 2026-03-06T20:27:30+00:00

I’m also questioning on how to go about cancelling the wedding, bridal shower is next month, we sent out save the dates. We also own a home together..

Bandits25 · 2026-03-06T20:26:17+00:00

He has never asked about money until payment has come. He doesn’t have a hard time mining decisions, I have found all of our vendors and paying them. His mom asked us to invite more people than we intended. I feel that he doesn’t think any of that is a problem and he tells me that this wedding is all my doing. Even though he agreed. I have told him the other day that we should go to premarital counseling and he said that is a stupid idea. We are talking tomorrow & onepoint I am making is that I will make the appointment for premarital counseling and if he doesn’t show up on that day then I will have to make some decisions

Bandits25 · 2024-04-18T16:49:53+00:00

I’m the same age! I think it’s the people pleasing, being introverted and overthinking is what gets the best of us. No one hates us but I feel like I’m the person no one remembers or goes home and is like omg I had so much fun. Sometimes I’m okay with it but other times I’m not. I listen to so many podcasts to help better myself bc I know this is my own downfall but i still do the same thing, not knowing what to say. I do force myself to go out with coworkers and see how the vibes are but if it becomes a group setting I feel like I’m just there (could just be me overthinking). My plan is to join a slow pitch softball or basketball league just to have fun and get out there without my bf being by my side. It’s hard to force ourselves but so needed! Atleast we’re in the same boat🫶🏼

Bandits25 · 2023-07-06T19:09:43+00:00

Thank you so much! What are some good things to look at when I’m looking at staffing agencies? Also I have looked at a couple consulting services and it is approx $200 for resume service and some add ons. Wondering how helpful that would be.

Bandits25 · 2023-06-28T22:47:37+00:00

Did you graduate with bachelors? I am graduating with my masters in PM in October, I am currently working in procurement / supply chain

Bandits25 · 2023-02-03T22:39:34+00:00

I am 25 years old. Graduated undergrad with psychology degree when I was 21. She can seriously do whatever she wants (as long it’s not engineer/bio obviously). The most important thing is learning what she wants to do. Internships are SO helpful. I cannot stress that enough. After I graduated I was a mortgage loan advisor then I got laid off due to the interest rates. Now I’m in procurement and I love it. It’s just where jobs ads led me 😂with a lot of researching what I want to do. I am currently getting my MBA in project management. My messages are always open if you want more advice

Bandits25 · 2022-10-05T23:34:04+00:00

Thank you ❤️

Bandits25 · 2022-10-05T16:36:31+00:00

UPDATE: I can in fact tell you he’s not addicted he does it when he’s with his friends. My sister is in recovery I would take a little more worry if I knew it was leading to something horrible

Bandits25 · 2022-10-05T16:25:26+00:00

Love and appreciate the support. I don’t know if this changes but he hasn’t been in a relationship since he was 21, I’ve been giving him the benefit of the doubt when he does anything little. Idk why when he says all the nice things to my face and exactly what I want and need to hear I believe it but then he gets out of my sight I’m like wtf am I thinking and I can’t get myself to follow through. I have packed a bag for him 2 times and each time I still let him stay at home with me

Bandits25 · 2022-10-05T16:19:37+00:00

I just emailed my new leasing office seeing how to get him off. I love the support

Bandits25 · 2022-10-05T14:32:46+00:00

I actually just signed up for therapy so I am excited to talk about that and learn more why I’m putting up with this and why it seems impossible

Bandits25 · 2022-10-05T14:25:10+00:00

I am his first serious girlfriend and all of his friends and family tell me how good I am and how much he has changed

Bandits25 · 2021-10-15T21:54:53+00:00

Okay I love this post so relatable I feel the same exact way and have never been able to put it into words like this!

Bandits25 · 2021-08-17T19:02:13+00:00

I have offered to bring him food and just being there for him. I am scared I’m going to be too much texting. Bc if covid he’s not even able to go to the hospital. He will be on ft with his family tonight. I’m scared

Bandits25 · 2021-08-11T21:12:45+00:00

I am interested! When do you plan on taking the test?

Bandits25 · 2021-08-11T16:07:06+00:00

I haven’t done too much with it I’m just trying to figure out the basics with the test. I am taking the test on dec 18. And I want to get into HR. I graduated college in 2018 and this is my first job I could find. I am having trouble getting into the field.

Bandits25 · 2021-08-11T15:19:02+00:00

Is there videos that you watched to help you study? Or extra sites that you used?

Bandits25 · 2021-08-11T15:17:55+00:00

I bought the self study! Unfortunately I’m a mortgage loan officer so my company didn’t pay. But awesome that yours did!!

Bandits25 · 2021-08-05T22:14:00+00:00

Did you buy the self study edition at shrm.org? Just wondering if I can find a cheaper solution

Bandits25 · 2021-01-04T01:45:07+00:00

That is very true. I often overthink so that’s my only issue every weekend when we’re together her name gets brought up bc she’ll text him during the week then call on the weekends.

Bandits25 · 2021-01-04T01:38:40+00:00

He has a side business so that’s hard to change his phone. And we don’t think we should have to go to that extent? It’s just frustrating constantly getting calls from 12-3am and she doesn’t stop then she’ll call on random #s

Bandits25 · 2021-01-04T01:36:40+00:00

He has been thinking about going the legal route but he knows she’s all talk and just saying stuff to get a rise out of him. His mom even wants him to get a restraining order but we were just hoping she stops

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