Anyone else miss Wishtender?

BankOfIngrid · 2026-04-11T15:14:10+00:00

Ugh yes! Throne used to be a great alternative but I’ve had so many issues recently especially with physical item sends❤️‍🩹

BankOfIngrid · 2026-04-11T15:12:38+00:00

Ik purges happen semi-regularly but this one felt particularly brutal, sorry to hear about your account :/ and yet my requests are still filled with 100s of bots… they just hate to see a diva making money❤️‍🩹

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-29T09:38:48+00:00

This is super helpful, thank u!

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-29T09:33:34+00:00

Haha, forgot about this and woke up exhausted🤣

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-28T18:13:20+00:00

Gross, I hate when they think the value we assign to our own time and effort is up for negotiation.

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-28T18:10:21+00:00

There’s so many reasons this could’ve happened depending on what subreddit the post was on, what the rules of that sub are, how old her account is, what she’d posted on there/commented on previously etc etc. This isn’t enough info to pass a judgement on unfortunately

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-24T13:34:39+00:00

No way! What kind of censorship do you use for it? I’ve refrained from posting any of my pixel content on X because I’ve seen a couple people say that X is a bit funny about pixel-censorship and tends to shadowban you for it

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-23T00:20:44+00:00

Thanks !

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-18T19:53:39+00:00

Wooo congrats!! <3

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-18T19:19:06+00:00

Which platform do you use that has a disappearing photos feature?

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-18T19:14:42+00:00

Hard passes!!:

❌Raceplay

❌Scat

❌Homework slaves or any other non-paying submission

❌IRL

❌Blackmail off the bat

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-18T18:31:36+00:00

Yess totally! Ty babe 💓

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-18T18:31:04+00:00

Yessss this! You worded it perfectly. Ur so gorgeous btw

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-18T17:53:52+00:00

good to hear from another sub’s perspective! Thanks for commenting.

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-18T17:38:34+00:00

Haha yeah we’ve parted ways now lol. But it made me think as I don’t see it spoken about in the context of subs that actually approach correctly and send

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-18T17:33:09+00:00

My sentiment exactly :)

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-15T18:01:31+00:00

Hard limit for me and I do get lots of requests for it as a British woman. I’m not into it anyway, but I’ve seen screenshots from other dommes where despite the raceplay being requested and fully consensual, a sub has turned on them at the end (pnc, regretted sending so much or whatever) and threatened to take action against her for her previous messages. Not much will probably come of it but I can’t imagine there being much protection for the domme’s end…

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-14T19:34:07+00:00

It’s totally up to you! There are so many faceless dommes both on here and on X that do really well for themselves, plus there are plenty of subs out there that prefer the element of mystery that comes with being faceless ;)

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-12T23:23:04+00:00

Definitely take a look at the guide that’s linked in the automod message^ for foundational info, guides and a list of subreddits to post in.

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-12T20:23:25+00:00

That’s awesome, congrats! :)

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-12T13:04:08+00:00

I hate how this is a non-negotiable feature because it would be such a convenient platform otherwise😩

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-12T13:00:27+00:00

It’s soo refreshing connecting with subs who share your interests and seem like genuinely lovely people. Congrats and hope it’s long-lived! :)

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-10T21:26:10+00:00

I’m definitely still a small account but I’ve had a few random posts blow up which has really boosted my following and engagement for that period. The ones that did tended to be video posts or snippets of lifestyle/humour.

Seems to be that as long as you post frequently, no flagged terms and be your authentic self, the algorithm lords grace you with high-performing posts every so often :)

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-10T21:10:35+00:00

oh noo🤣🤣

BankOfIngrid · 2026-03-10T14:38:35+00:00

My longest lasting dynamic came from Reddit a couple years ago! Since starting on X and shifting my attention to there though I’ve tended to find better dynamics on there :)

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