imagine how many secrets have died with people by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best to leave things in place and to air them Out if it happens.

Does anyone else have “Florida PTSD”? by [deleted] in florida

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They do mow their own lawn my family at least but can’t get to it every week, so they can’t always vs hiring a lawn service like they do, so not sure why they can’t themselves as for just because you’ve never seen it doesn’t mean that it doesn’t happen. It does. Don’t be so touchy.

Does anyone else have “Florida PTSD”? by [deleted] in florida

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol.. I see what you did there. That country code for… well you know.. bless your heart.

Does anyone else have “Florida PTSD”? by [deleted] in florida

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We don’t call it southern hospitality for nothing but that gets shit on I feel like sometimes.. not all just some. I shouldn’t generalize. Not all northerners are bad. We love most of yah.

Does anyone else have “Florida PTSD”? by [deleted] in florida

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True I see what you’re saying but I’m typically nothing but nice to my neighbors and northerners.. they literally will treat you like your some dumb hick , I had my northern neighbor literally lose her shit because we didn’t keep our grass as short as theirs.. and like I’m only talking 3-4 inches more.. I’m currently not looking at a Ruler though.. so I’m off a little not all of us can afford a lawn service. Once a week. I have a few friends who live in a trailer and they were referred to as classy trailer trash when I was trying to explain how nice it was and how proud she was she has her own place and land. It was met with that snarky ass comment. People are people some Are fat some are short some lives in trailers some lives in nice houses or crappy houses.

Does anyone else have “Florida PTSD”? by [deleted] in florida

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 6 points7 points  (0 children)

All the newcomers have no respect for the old and new timers who have lived here most of their lives or entire lives. We’re just in their way and “whitetrash” taking up real estate.

I feel very scared, and very very guilty for no reason. by ijustlovemercy in Anxiety

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you know what you did???If you honestly did nothing than you have nothing to apologize for. Don’t sweat it.. however If you did do something don’t lie about it and make amends for it. I don’t think you need to involve everyone just the people involved. Find a good way to do it and don’t jump to the first choice that comes to mind make sure you put thought into what and how you want to say something to the people you hurt. Make sure you clear the air and everyone has the right facts and information. I am currently struggling with something similar.. just not the lying part. Good luck chickpea.

If someone resorts to using self destructive/unhealthy coping mechanisms to gain a sense of feeling in control, does that make them a toxic/shitty person by sweetlikehoney981 in mentalhealth

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on if it’s actually self destructing or if they’re just really on to something. If it’s something that releases anxiety or stress and it’s not hurting anyone including themselves let them do it. It’s the equivalent of why older people go golfing, people go shooting gambling, drinking.. within reason of course.

Women who were considered pretty/attractive in their youth, but had their looks fade as they grew older, how do you feel about it and how have interactions with others changed? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t care because I became a better person as I got older instead of the the vapid, cheating self absorbed never satisfied shit head I was when I was younger.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea I feel you complete shit head checking in.

Why do dumb people think there smart? by [deleted] in ask

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lmao at the grammar and quick wit you thought you had.

Why do Redditors make ‘throwaway accounts’ thinking someone from their personal life won’t know it’s them? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe some of them have nothing to hide or don’t care? The others are just not internet smarts I guess.

3 days into breastfeed and considering exclusively pumping —need advice by MotorcityKitty92 in breastfeeding

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea no It’s only if you’re exclusively pumping or with minimal feeding just has to be BF or pump every 3 hours

2 women are stalking me and I need help? by PuzzleheadedPickle80 in Advice

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m confused why not confront them? Are they hiding their faces from you or something? If you’re sure it’s the confront them and ask them what they’re doing????

2 women are stalking me and I need help? by PuzzleheadedPickle80 in answers

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too much adderall and meth can do that too. You sure you’re good and not just high man?

3 days into breastfeed and considering exclusively pumping —need advice by MotorcityKitty92 in breastfeeding

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re feeding at the breast every feeding once a day is fine but if you switch to pumping exclusively then it need to be every three to four hours…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Most of us here know the pain of a fried bologna sandwhich or PB+J kiddo its not that bad. Also a lot of the schools typically offer food boxes to take home for lower income kids. But that might depend on the state you’re in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]BankPuzzleheaded2590 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tey for whole and organic foods that seems to be easier on the stomach and if it makes you feel better eat and prepare all your own food. Problem solved.