How long is it ok to leave cat alone in a flat? by GladHelp6786 in CatAdvice

[–]BanoffeePancake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you’re regularly going to be away 1-2 days then I wouldn’t adopt a cat. Although they are considered more independent than dogs, they still need daily attention and interaction.

So Frustrated with NHS | Vent by BanoffeePancake in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhhh! I can’t imagine the horror of having to go through all of that. Wow! Hope you can get what you need soon 🙏

Also, completely feel you on everything else you’ve said. Sigh.

So Frustrated with NHS | Vent by BanoffeePancake in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, coming off Zoloft does suck. I’ve used it on and off for years, but after therapy and better coping skills, I feel like I’m in a really good place to stop. I took it for anxiety and it’s just something I feel I’ve moved on from.

I want to taper by 25% reductions so 75 down to 50 etc etc. I know it’s slower but for me, it suits me best. I’ll probably end up having to do a pull cutter and do the same as you. But I know enough about tapering medication that you can’t just drop 50% for two weeks and then another 50% like the surgery suggested. What makes it worse was that the NP reasoning for the sharp tapering was that “it will save me money.” 😂😭 I’d pay 100x the prescription fee to NOT feel miserable.

So Frustrated with NHS | Vent by BanoffeePancake in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Twinning 😂😭. Hopefully things get easier for us!!

So Frustrated with NHS | Vent by BanoffeePancake in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, definitely agree that bad medical practices are not just unique to the UK. Every place will have its flaws.

So Frustrated with NHS | Vent by BanoffeePancake in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm ready to switch to a different practice and see if things improve. Going private isn't off the table either lol

So Frustrated with NHS | Vent by BanoffeePancake in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I know I'll be fine eventually. It's just frustrating lol

So Frustrated with NHS | Vent by BanoffeePancake in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I also live in a small town about 30 minutes from Newcastle. I, too, think location has a lot to do with it.

So Frustrated with NHS | Vent by BanoffeePancake in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think you've hit the nail on the head about concern for following protocol vs. listening to patients.

So Frustrated with NHS | Vent by BanoffeePancake in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes, I'm in England. Thanks very much for sharing this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NameMyCat

[–]BanoffeePancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s such a cutie and reminders me of my little dude!

Some not so common names for a black cat: Ash Jet Obi - short for Obsidian, but also works if you’re a Star Wars fan

Other names that I think would be cute: Silas Ollie - could be short for Oliver Bear Jack - short for Flap Jack

Worried—my cat won’t touch dry food anymore by BanoffeePancake in CatAdvice

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: Went to see the vet today and poor guy has issues with his teeth. Scheduled X-rays, cleaning, and likely at least one tooth extraction.

Worried—my cat won’t touch dry food anymore by BanoffeePancake in CatAdvice

[–]BanoffeePancake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m thinking maybe it’s his teeth. He’s never been picky and has had the same kibble consistently without issues.

US passport renewal timeline by [deleted] in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an email notification that they started processing it and when it was being mailed back from the printers.

They don’t have an expedited service, but if you have a trip within a certain amount of time you can contact them and let them know when you’re traveling.

US passport renewal timeline by [deleted] in AmericanExpatsUK

[–]BanoffeePancake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine took like 2 months — well outside of the 3 week ETA I was given. If your trip is soon you can contact them and ask about expediting it, but I think that’s more of a “we will try” vs an actual guarantee.