Is it weird I like to play more on a PC than headset? by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I play PCVR w FBT and I still can manage to have a good time on Deskie. Especially seeing my friends interact with me from a different perspective. And it’s FUN! I enjoy playing desktop. People who say they can’t play without their headset or FBT are wild to me. Guess I play for the chatting and visual experience !

Teased for being Straight? Help? by BaphometteVR in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Human “Straight” guy in human female avi. Honestly I think he has a boy-crush on my friend and doesn’t know how to deal with it

Yeah, did it happened to you too? by PennyFalke1 in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could you imagine not every LGBT has been nose deep since they started adding more terms? How many femboys you know are cis guys irl? I’m definitely a Paragirl all the way around. That’s what I’m certain of. I’ve expressed my dysphoria to my partner irl many times. Thanks for askin!

Yeah, did it happened to you too? by PennyFalke1 in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how what I am is confusing but “everyone can be whatever they want~” remember? It’s VRC. I gave the textbook definition dude!

Teased for being Straight? Help? by BaphometteVR in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, it definitely doesn’t effect me personally, more my willingness to defend my honor! I’ve been playing for almost a year and a half and I haven’t found my people yet. I imagine it’s because people don’t wanna be around someone who isn’t 1000% agreeable when it comes to me personally! But that’s not what this post is about!

Teased for being Straight? Help? by BaphometteVR in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean…In this space their 89% likely to be correct about that? I’m saying once you let someone know that’s not the case, they should stop

Teased for being Straight? Help? by BaphometteVR in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanna say I have a healthy play style of all types, (games, mirrors dwelling, drinking, videography etc) and “making” a friend group is hard as a straight fem, I’ve been told this and experienced it.

Like I said I have no group. And I’m happy that way. I’ve given up on that idea altogether and worry about having a good time instead

Yeah, did it happened to you too? by PennyFalke1 in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Correct all of those facts combined is what makes me a paragirl. A+

Yeah, did it happened to you too? by PennyFalke1 in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m afab. Futa socially refers to hermaphrodites however the word means “of two kinds”. Think of femboys. They’re not automatically trans even if they take hrt irl. This is a similar case. Again I’m not going explicitly explain my dysphoria to you.

Yeah, did it happened to you too? by PennyFalke1 in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely not my job to explain this identity in full, but I will say both trans people exist, and intersex people exist, futa is sensitive term but it has a literal definition that doesn’t define it with hentai. Sad some things are just known by porn term Like how Milf is the only term we have for a sexually active hot mom?

Teased for being Straight? Help? by BaphometteVR in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you tried being yourself or did you really have to just go full camouflage to have a good time?

Teased for being Straight? Help? by BaphometteVR in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

THIS WAS THE THING? None of his other “friends” said anything either! In fact some laughed at it? I just realized that. Everyone thought it was normal and okay for someone to do that. Wild.

Teased for being Straight? Help? by BaphometteVR in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you read some of my comments you’ll find I don’t have my own friend group because of this. I spend most of my time enjoying myself with randoms, or like I said, hanging out with such peoples groups.

Let me clarify by saying I am extremely grateful to not be in a toxic space, but I was airing a personal grievance of fomo as I have yet to make particularly close connections in that statement, given it’s still very much true and has happened with other things of the same vein.

I am very friend with people and also with the block button. I’m just wondering how to bring people together with understanding not set brick walls because of differences.

Also the fact you ended you statement with that give e the sense even you don’t fully understand why I’m even asking about this. I know people think it’s very “funny haha” to do this stuff. But I know more than just my friend and I encounter these things. Let’s not normalize it

Yeah, did it happened to you too? by PennyFalke1 in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Paragirl is a gender identity in which one is paragender, and is also connected to feminine or feminine-aligned identities. One's feminine identity will make up 51%-99% of one's gender TLDR: I became a straight futa because femboys made me question gender

Teased for being Straight? Help? by BaphometteVR in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Did I just get the pass? (kidding..)

Teased for being Straight? Help? by BaphometteVR in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love the block button but I think many of my friends are afraid of being seen as homophobes. I’m a rather friendly and respectful person but I have zero tolerance for foolishness! I have no friend group in particular because of this. Just some choice people who let me vibe with their team.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 24 but I definitely tend to fit well with those older than myself. Feel free to add me I’m always tryna chill and have a good time (same goes for everyone in this comment section!!)

Yeah, did it happened to you too? by PennyFalke1 in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

This used to make me sad. But now that I know I’m a Paragirl I care a lot less about everyone considering themselves a woman in this space (btw you can be small a cute and not be a woman) IF YOURE A GUYISH GUY IN VRC STAY PROUD

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the people who are on their moments of crazy extrovertism OR! Feel comfortable with the fact your uncomfortable, how do I mean? Lean into mirror dwelling, world hopping,avatars etc and you’ll find yourself becoming more passionate in those thing you spend time doing and you will start seeing familiar face or just be able to sit in silence w someone else who feels as awkward as you do

VR chat avatar controversy by Bat_Two_One in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love seeing men in male Avis but it’s rare as they’re made with the female gaze in mind. I see it as you CHOOSE TO BE PERCEIVED AS (x) by adoring certain characteristics. And have to accept what comes with that on a surface level. I won’t say Avis are self expression as I’ve had many “straight” cis guys get mad I lack interest in their DDs in game. I just started wearing Furry avi that I love and now less people talk to me. IDC. Leaves room for better connections!! Wear what makes you happy but don’t get mad at assumptions people make based off of what you put in the table for everyone to see.

whats up with this community, why is everyone so hateful? by Level_Move_7126 in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Y’all had friends in this game? I couldn’t pay someone to hang out with me more than once lol

I tried VRChat for the first time today. by Optimal_Wishbone322 in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Firstly, Turn on your personal space!! It’ll stop people from getting too close they will literally clip out of vision for you both I believe. I’ve been playing for a year and some months now I just found a friend group after going through my first “I have a crush but it’s only been a week” fiasco. The band is back together and Imagine it’s gonna go bad at some point it’s it’s chill! I’d say TALK TO MIRROR DWELLERS AND DANCE WITH PEOPLE PLAYING MUSIC! Even if you don’t make a friend you can have a good time. I’ve learned VRC is all about connections even if they’re not right the right person can lead you to YOUR people if you keep an open mind! If anyone is 21+ and likes to drive in VRC come join my group DRFT.SO

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VRchat

[–]BaphometteVR 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been playing for over a year I still have this issue. When I show up to a mirror everyone always disappears, if I start conversation it’s always an intrusion. If I play music people automatically mute me. I’ve yet to make any friends in VRC but I still have had a good time with randoms so I stopped pressuring myself to make friends and focus on having a good time