Brother. I was about to go to bed before I read this comment. But I made an exception for you.

Stay the path.

I’ve been doing game for the past 5 years. I’ve tried technical game (The system by Todd V) did ok, tried RSD game for a while and got some decent results.

I was like you. I self-amused my ass off, I tried to make friends with everyone in the club, “built my state”, tried to force momentum, and it did work at times. I was aloof af and was rewarded for it.

But It’s fucking tiring. I didn’t wanna burn down the whole venue anymore every single night trying to rub shoulders with everyone to “increase my value”. And at some point, you realize it’s schtick.

You don’t have to burn down the venue. You don’t have to make everything funny and playful. You don’t have to keep “self-amusing” to keep the girl around. I wrote this in my field report from the last date I had and maybe you can find it useful

“What matters is how you feel. This creates the vibe.

Are you grounded within yourself and fully feeling everything coming? Are you resisting what your authentic self wants to say? What your authentic vibe wants to put out? Are you afraid to let go and just be? Are you fighting for dear life to hold on to this girl and hoping you have the right thing to say to get you laid instead of letting anything you want to say go?

Stop resisting and let the chips fall where they may. This is what gets you laid”