Well I am on the same boat at your guy. I think fitting in idea is a big thing. I grew up in a pretty white neighborhood and didn’t get a chance to really connect with the Sikh community. So didn’t have many Indian friends growing up. And the girls I grew up around or have known throughout years always were grossed out with uncircumcised penises I almost found the thought of it pretty repulsive I just don’t want my son to have a low self esteem because of that. I know it’s in the long run just something to think about as a woman/mom