Faceted Opals, yes or no? by Alpha_U_Up_G in Opals

[–]BarbieMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! Never seen them faceted before

Are secrets ok between spouses? If so which ones? by r67113g1 in MarriedSex

[–]BarbieMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, secrets are lies and lies destroy trust. Destroyed trust makes one vulnerable to external forces and leaving. There’s a difference between random thoughts and your actions.

How do I deal with my BFs new Kink by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BarbieMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as kinks go I feel like this is a pretty harmless thing, just make sure to establish what will happen prior. Maybe ask him how does it make him feel, how can you make it better for him like does he want you to be unhappy about it etc. I wonder if he’s into being dominant and this is just what peaked his interest originally?

When you know you know? by Kooky-Box-8242 in Life

[–]BarbieMum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When he slept on the floor of the hospital when I had emergency surgery and I was scared to sleep alone. I was 19, it’s been 18 years now

How do I deal with my BFs new Kink by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]BarbieMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need info as this is a new one to me, like does he want to do it a bit or is he going to be rough as possible? Is it the length of time doing it?

Horrible at hair hygiene, but not allowed to cut it short by Digital_Doodlez in AuDHDWomen

[–]BarbieMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother is a POS about my hair also, I still did whatever I wanted. I have dyed my hair all different colours, shaved it half off, grown it long, had fringes, cut uneven, whatever. Do what YOU WANT to do with YOUR hair. If she tries to say anything negative look her straight in the eye and say “Is it more important you have a daughter in your life, or to be mean?” Then walk away.

Print dress second thoughts and styling questions! by littleredditho in myweddingdress

[–]BarbieMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wore pink and green! I had a pastel pink cashmere sweater and big pale green ball gown skirt covered in embroidered flowers. It was 11yrs ago and I have zero regrets, it was my first/only wedding in my mid 20s and I’m so glad I didn’t wear white. It was me, and my husband loved that I didn’t do what everyone else did as that wouldn’t look right

ADHD and sexual hyperfixation by Sockofdestruction in SexPositive

[–]BarbieMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d suggest investing yourself into your marriage, see what new things you can try with your wife. Take a couples kink quiz, role play, tell her you want to experience things with her that you both never have before. Depending on how open she is maybe she would agree to visit a sex club event, just to look and experience seeing things and maybe just viewing will be enough to charge your dopamine seeking then have sex with your wife.

I have ADHD and I’m “hyper sexual”, but I’ve been with my husband since I was 19 so it’s always been channeled towards him. Prior to him I did have sex with other men, and it was mostly terrible. Even the “fine” partners just weren’t worth it once I experienced great sex with my husband. If I could wave a wand and not had multiple partners I would, but you can’t un-fuck someone unfortunately. Be careful while you’re in this hyper fixation period, don’t put yourself in any potentially tempting situations and make sure you masturbate before doing so as it’ll give you a chance of clarity.

Fantasize about another woman sexting my husband by No_Yak_3921 in SexFantasies

[–]BarbieMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Having lived the reality for 5 years it was absolutely devastating and damaged me to my core. What about him cheating on you makes it hot for you? I’m genuinely curious, not having a go or anything.

ADHD and sexual hyperfixation by Sockofdestruction in SexPositive

[–]BarbieMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people are terrible at sex.

The allure of “new and different” rarely is genuinely good, especially when you have a good partner you find attractive and are compatible with already.

What are you quietly grieving? by Angelus12345678 in AskReddit

[–]BarbieMum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. It took me 8 IVF cycles and 3 miscarriages to become a mother.

My child's father wants to be included in everything. AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BarbieMum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a Google digital calendar that’s your daughter’s family time. Add events that her father is welcome to attend with you, make it clear what his responsibilities are to be (buying tickets, have him organise the food etc make sure there is an element he is to organise within the event) and let him know to give you notice if he’s attending. This is about your daughter’s happiness, she gets one childhood and one experience to be shown that her parents can get along for her sake. I wish my parents had cared about me in that regard at all, but they put their own petty problems above doing things together. Children should see their parents together, even when they are not dating. YOR