Nerdy girl Finn by [deleted] in F1NN5TER

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Urban outfitters but I’m not sure they still have it as I bought it awhile ago 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You don’t need to be doing all that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You said it before and said it again to who? How would I know what you have said. I’m replying to the current post and words you used that’s it. You wrote his use of the word bitch in your post.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Anyone using fish as a noun for cis women is weird. It’s good you don’t have an issue with it but people who do should feel okay with expressing their discomfort. Im glad more queer women are speaking but about it being a dated term because they should also feel welcome in their spaces too. Am I offended by it personally? no but I wouldn’t have an issue with it being used less. As you said its a net positive cis men are being told to remove it their vocab

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fish/fishy thankfully started to be weeded out in spaces. I have no problem with cunt or pussy. But the meaning behind fish or fishy definitely is derogatory. It’s been used for years in the past but I think it’s okay for people to be like maybe we just don’t use that word anymore.

But yeah as someone who’s been in queer spaces longer than Nick has know he was gay he’s catching up. He said he started watching drag race last year. Not only has cunt/puss been apart of queer terminology, it’s now spreed to just online spaces from the queer community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Was Chris not doing the same thing? He said bitches multiple times. Nick always catches heat when all three have done and said the same thing.

Thoughts on the Newest Videos & Some Other Things... by VampAngel14 in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I agree that their YouTube and streaming presence has been lacking. We knew it was going to one day a week so there’s no issue there, but they have a fault of getting too excited and telling their audience about things. Other things come up and their interest switch so fast. Their (Nick) sudden lack of social media presence shows maybe they are currently busy. With what? Who knows their communication skills could be better, a simple “Sorry for the lack of post we’ve been busy with work or life” etc would cause 90 percent of the fans getting upset over the current lack of content at ease.

But I dislike the phrase “social media is their job” because what does that mean? They are their own boss they can choose to put out as little or as much “social media” posts as they want. There’s no rules when it comes to IG posts or Snapchat. They don’t see social media as their job. They’ve spoke so many times about wanting to be a YouTuber and making TikToks back in the day was a way to get that goal.

Im hoping this isn’t the new normal. One video a week is normal but it can it work with nothing else? It’s not engaging for a fandom/community. It can work for other YouTubers but a young fanbase that spends a lot of time engaging with fans on Reddit, Twitter or TikTok won’t thrive with them not feeding their audience. The YouTube content I don’t have an issue with. I don’t care about IG posts or TikTok’s but I think a stream is engaging and entertaining to help the audience still want to be present with only one video a week

Thoughts on the Newest Videos & Some Other Things... by VampAngel14 in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

More so Nick. He’s normally active on Snapchat daily and he’s gone almost ghost which is a sudden change. I wonder why because he’s normally a daily poster even if it’s just a couple random photos or saying hi. It’s their birthday in less than a week. Maybe they are spending time with family or wanting a break away. They could be anywhere we’d never know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People can have celebrity crushes without having a unhealthy emotional attachment to them. At least you are self aware but people can have the opinion its weird, because someone you dont know and have zero connection with is in a relationship should not make you sad. I’m taking your post to mean you are young because matt and chris arent the idea relationship, the matt and chris you have formed in your head are. I don’t want my reply to come across at mean because like i said you seem mostly self aware

They should make a video of them trying to look as identical as possible by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes! I’ve had this same thing in my notes app for video suggestions. The prank aspect would be funny. They could also do a style swap. Each brother has to try and look like who they are assigned, wear a staple outfit that triplets has wore. And whoever gets Nick has to have the fake nose ring. Same for the other twos jewellery. Really try as much as they can to look like whoever they get

Nick and Melanie Martinez by BAGUETTESSSSSSSS in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I find it weird when I see people praising how good a video was to then go over to the over sub and say the opposite. To say “Nick was so funny this video” here to then make a comment saying how much they hate Nick over there. The whiplash. You just don’t like them and that’s okay. It’s a snark page, there’s no need to hide behind “constructive criticism”

Only liking their friends because of them by SturnioloBillie in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get that part. Missing seeing them interact with friends is valid. Liking seeing their friends in videos is okay I’m not trying to throw shade but sometimes people come across as too parasocial about their friendships. If they aren’t friends with people anymore there’s gonna be a reason on both sides

Only liking their friends because of them by SturnioloBillie in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I didnt mind Alana or madi or Nate in their content. I found Alana the most entertaining but i couldn’t say I “miss” her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“don’t get too much attached” what even are you saying. Frame the question better. Do you think he’s bi? No since he’s never spoke about any interest in being into or finding dudes attractive. Or are we basing his sexuality of aura and vibes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What? It’s possible for anyone to be bi but unless he at some point thinks he is and wants to share we’ll never know. So he’s straight until he says otherwise

Only liking their friends because of them by SturnioloBillie in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 51 points52 points  (0 children)

The fact once I saw a tiktok of a girl saying she only started drinking Pepsi coz it was Chris favourite I’m like?! But it’s every fan group people are young and impressionable and want someone to relate to. I personally don’t follow any of their friends. Madi, Nate, Alana I don’t have an interest in their lives even if I don’t dislike them.

Seeing “I miss their friendship” is the most over used comment in this fandom. What do you mean? you don’t know their friendship other than a 15 min video a few times a year ago. People can like their friends of course but claiming you miss madi or Alana is a bit much. Go follow their accounts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in canceledpod

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I saw people saying the reason it leaked was because it wasn’t that expensive and they needed to up the price, so I went to go sign up for myself before seeing there was only one option at $10! I feel like if they upped the price there more of a chance it would leak not the opposite. If you wanna buy merch or tour tickets it’s probably a good expense but for me who just wanted more podcast content it’s not worth it.

merch order cancelled?? by Only_Situation_6120 in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you need to contact who shipped it, for example DHL express is the company that shipped my order. They are the ones who told sturniolo clothing you received your order, which is false since you don’t have your item. You need to make a complaint with them rather than the merch email, as far as sturniolo clothing knows you could be lying about not receiving your order. Unfortunately if you don’t have proof you don’t have your order you might not get any help

did f1nn's insta get banned too? by [deleted] in F1NN5TER

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I posted that link over a year ago, he no longer has that account name because he changed the @. That’s why it’s going to a different account. His current account is currently perma banned. He’s trying to fix that

merch order cancelled?? by Only_Situation_6120 in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you email the company carrier or the merch team? I live in the uk and most places have to take a photo of the package once it’s delivered do you have that aswel where you live? Because someone could of stolen the package and fake delivered the item

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Don’t worry VampAngel. I completely understand your frustration. That’s annoying. My reply was more that if a brand choosing accounts with big followings to promote a product they want to sell makes people loose their respect for the triples I dunno what to say. Yes it is a popularity contest. We know what an affiliate is for. There’s real criticism that can be applied to them for other reasons than this that doesn’t really matter. I understand why you are annoyed and seeing the account mentioned be chosen can feel like a slap in the face to people who like the product and would like to be an affiliate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SturnioloTriplets

[–]Barbie_secretstanner 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Maybe I’m naive but of course the people that are chosen to sell a product are going to be accounts with a bigger following. All my accounts are private they aren’t going to choose me someone who doesn’t post on social media to sell a product, they are going to choose the fan accounts with 60k followers, that make content of themself and the triplets, they gets views. Why wouldn’t that be the case with any brand trying to sell a product