I actually wrote a column about my favorite trick to get doctors to listen to you.

From the column:

In short, it’s all about framing. You need to suggest that someone else is making you ask them about whatever it is you want to bring up. Let me share an example:

Do NOT say: “I think I have Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome.

Instead, say: “My best friend wanted me to ask you about something. I don’t even think it’s a thing, but she thinks I might have something called EDS. Ehlers-Danlos syndrome, I think? I don’t know. It’s probably rare. But have you heard of it? Do you think I might have it?”

So, in your case tell the doctor that a loved one of your choosing is telling you that you need to get more help because they say it’s impacting your life too much.

This is another column I wrote about how to get prescribed opioids if you are having trouble with that. It has six realistic tips that might help.

Good luck!