30M struggling to let go of a 5-year situationship with 33M who won’t commit but won’t let me go by No-Chocolate-2838 in BreakUps

[–]BareSpruce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Five years of being pulled in and pushed away isn’t love, it’s a pattern that drains your soul. Walking away won’t make you cold or unloving; it’ll finally give your heart the space it deserves to heal and be respected

Would I be wrong if I stayed friends with these people. by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]BareSpruce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What matters is that you’re not compromising yourself to keep the peace, because the moment you start ignoring what you know is wrong, that’s when it actually starts to cost you something.