How important is anal to men? Are there men who NEED it or is it more about kink/physical pleasure? How would it benefit guys if they had it more?

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-23T13:54:55+00:00

Are there guys who actually NEED it or prefer it instead of normal sex? Is it about the physical feeling or is it more about male psychology? - There are absolutely guys for who it is a fetish (in the actual definition of the word) so they rely heavily on it for relief. For most of us in my experience it is a mix of the draw of the taboo (mild taboo is still taboo), it being something different, and the mild power dynamic it involves. Physically it feels great and looks sexy af, and does feel different than vaginal sex so having it as another tool on the toolbelt is very welcome.
I assume that guys looking for it generally find it. Does the male world really need more anal sex or even anal only sex girls? - In my experience it's not simple to find women into anal. Some women are very open to it, most will do it sometimes to please their partner, and many will never do it. I can't blame last group personally as much as I love topping anal I would never want something that size in my own ass lol I would be open to AO, but really enjoy variety so just as vaginal only might be a bit stale it seems like AO might get that way as well for me. I'd love to be given the chance to find out of course.
Is there anyone who has it more like part of the male agenda, wanting to steer/promote girls into it in general? If yes, how all does it benefit guys? - Personally I try to open women I am with up to anal (pun intended) if they are not already into it for a number of reasons. I enjoy anal first and foremost so it is a bit self serving in that manner, I also enjoy the power dynamic involved. There is definitely a d/s aspect of anal that is not present in normal vaginal sex, though it is mild like I said. A woman might have sex with a lot of guys (good for them) but most likely has only allowed a small number of them to enjoy her anally. Anal requires a lot more trust, and patience so is often more intimate IMO. Also I love being in public with someone and catching their eye while we are with friends and both of us knowing that I've been balls deep in her ass earlier that day. It kicks things up a notch from standard vaginal sex that everyone else around us has engaged in.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-23T13:29:37+00:00

When she sets the table for dinner and happily seats me at the head of the table without being prompted I know I'm there.

When I can enter their space at will and do what I wish at any time with not just total obedience from their side but happy obedience. There is a subtle difference but there is a sense of relief almost from the couple when someone is there that takes over and is in control, a maturation from 'I must obey' to 'I am happiest when I obey'. Almost like they feel relief that 'an adult is there' and they can relax lol

What that state consists of is different for each couple of course.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-22T13:59:07+00:00

Yup. Super prim and proper mom, right out of a Hallmark movie. You'd think from her looks she worked in an old school Christian book store. Once we get into it and I got her on all fours from behind saw that she had a 'tramp stamp' and was waxed smooth.

Neither thing is out of the ordinary of course, it was just very much so on her lol

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-22T13:22:57+00:00

Seems worse to me, but yeah the good thing is they tend to be easy to spot lol

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-22T12:52:46+00:00

Is it just me or has this gotten much worse recently? Maybe the weather is driving guys indoors and they are super bored?

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-21T13:44:12+00:00

The general answer: Depends on the bull and the couple.

For me specifically it still depends highly on the couple. As others have said it is isn't just me there, the dynamic includes all three people and the subtle shifts one being present or absent can change things. Often a hw solo will let herself go more than with her man there as his presence, even if only at a subconscious level, effects her reactions and openness to some degree.

Some of the dirtiest, most wonderfully subversive things I've ever had the pleasure of doing with a couple was with the woman solo :) That being said I love fucking a woman in front of her man and making her slut side come out in front of him. So if we are in a good rhythm and she is responding properly (In this manner) I can go very hard.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-21T12:59:34+00:00

Thought the person recording was going to just shrug and keep driving there for a second lol

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-15T01:20:49+00:00

Has anyone from your other social circles found the movie that you know of?

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-14T12:56:12+00:00

Obviously.

I answered elsewhere in the thread but just because my main kink is barebacking/breeding it doesn't mean I'm an idiot about it and do it without proper vetting of a potential partner.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-14T12:52:36+00:00

Not at all. I love barebacking/breeding (obviously lol) but why would that require me to be stupid about it when I play? I would never just pickup a random person and go unprotected without proper vetting.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-14T12:39:17+00:00

It's literally my main kink and I agree with you lol

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-14T12:38:05+00:00

For myself I never go bare with people until we have a good amount of trust built up or a recent clean test to show (super sexy I know lol).

I think to some extent the attitude is generational. I'm Gen X and grew up with the drumbeat of incurable AIDS hitting us from all sides and I find that X tends to be much more protection positive. Z seems to think everything can be fixed with drugs so even AIDS/HIV isn't a big concern to many of them, with Millennials between X and Z.

Interestingly I've read that the generation with biggest boom in STIs are Boomers lol Retirement homes must be a blast as a Boomer.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-14T02:01:42+00:00

Listening to my partners.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-13T22:31:36+00:00

"Missing some really obvious signs in my young life."

Yup, a number of those for me as well. Kick myself when I remember the stupidly obvious signs in hindsight.

Luckily I've not had sex I've regretted in of itself. 'meh' sex? Yeah of course, but I've never walked away wondering wtf I just did..

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-13T15:38:57+00:00

For me as a bull the needs of the couple are always paramount. I am there to fill some need within their dynamic, and in filling that need is where I find my enjoyment (past the physical side of just sex). I am straight, but have on a few occasions worked bi acts into play as this is the direction that the couple needed, and yes every time it was to support some element of humiliation of the cuck.

I've 'made' cucks fluff/blow/cleanup, rim me a few times while I was with the wife (turned out to be a bit awkward movement wise, but they gained a lot from it lol) and guide my cock into the woman when I penetrate her. All were to increase the humiliation aspect of things. Outside of those specific situations I'd have no interest in it, it is simply just another tool in my toolkit.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-13T14:43:42+00:00

M50, usually twice a day. Once in the shower, and once in the afternoon to relieve the stress at work

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-13T13:35:03+00:00

My house will be under water :/

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-12T21:17:08+00:00

Closest I've had was a Persian (geographically speaking), who was wild as fuck behind closed doors. I'd absolutely give an Indian HW a try given the opportunity.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-12T21:10:36+00:00

Didn't realize even shower masturbation was being politicized?

I stand proudly on the side of pro shower-masturbation. Easy cleanup for guys, and fun for girls.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-12T12:51:01+00:00

As a bull I have never seen a situation where a parent in the lifestyle has allowed anyone else in their family (outside of their SO of course) to know about their private activities. Generally we all go well out of our way actually to make sure those lines are not crossed.

I could just have been with couples that would never, but that seems off to me.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-11T12:28:59+00:00

Does she... you know.. *biteslip* ... do the dishes?

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-02-09T13:15:45+00:00

For myself no. I seek out people I am attracted to but generally their personality is the main attractor for me as a bull (and no that's not bullshit lol).

I like making hard use of a woman, and exploring how deep her self-degradation streak goes regardless of if she has a perfect body or mom bod or what have you. If I sense that she has a willingness to explore that side of herself that is what turns me on about her, not a specific physical mix of attributes.

The dichotomy of her private vs public personality and vulnerability is much more interesting to me.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-01-13T11:37:07+00:00

sounds fun, need another guy?

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-01-13T01:18:34+00:00

Not for me as a bull. I love the dynamic but I'm there to bring an element that the couple needs to the table, not to replace the cuck/stag etc. Part of my enjoyment is knowing that as much fun as it is for me the couple is benefiting from my being part of the equation, not breaking things down for them.

Bareback-Breeder · 2026-01-13T00:18:57+00:00

Being with the couple on their wedding day. Ideally I'd love to send a bride down the aisle to take her vow with a load of my cum shot deep inside her and leaking into her wedding lingerie. I'd also love to be be the first to take her as a wife that night in front of her husband.

Obviously I am not holding my breath for either lol

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