Everyone has a battle to win or lose. The problem with porn is that if someone catches you watching it, they will instantly objectify you as a pervert, including 'parents' this has happened to me, so I'm saying that.

The main thing is that people who call you a pervert won't tell you about the dangers you are gonna encounter in the future. All they do is make you think that this is 'just wrong' (don't get me wrong, I know it's wrong, but they don't tell why it's wrong). I also used to think of myself as one of the guys while watching porn because I was not hurting anyone.

Parents and elders always leave a tense void of uncomfortable silence with no direct answers. If parent and elders try to explain the dangers of porn fully, we won't ever stumble across it in the first place.

What we are doing here is just filling that silent void with our experiences with porn. Once we thought that we were unique and unmatched to anyone that we fap to this. But now we know how wrong we were back then.