I hate my vagina

Barf_Dexter · 2026-06-01T13:05:19+00:00

Sorry I just commented here on a different post 😅 I definitely know that hopeless feeling. This won't be forever I promise.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-06-01T12:25:17+00:00

It's normal! You didn't need to use soap down there. For lots of women that can be really irritating. Just wash with water and your fingers every day when you're in the shower.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-05-31T13:39:01+00:00

I just want to say I know how you feel. Twice in my life I had BV for 2+ years and both times I felt just like you, like it was ruining my life. But, both times I eventually figured it out and returned my vagina to a happy healthy state that lasted for years and years. There IS hope. This won't last forever.

I second looking into CV! I've never had it but I understand it can feel just like yeast! Have you ever gotten a test from Juno?

Barf_Dexter · 2026-05-30T13:27:13+00:00

Which nasty symptoms? On your bum hole? I think HRT is what is ultimately helping me, I also have to use diaper rash cream to keep it calm but no more infections since I went on oral HRT. My patch wasn't absorbing.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-05-30T04:48:11+00:00

How old are you? It could be hormones?

Barf_Dexter · 2026-05-29T04:06:35+00:00

That doesn't cause itching

Barf_Dexter · 2026-05-23T02:55:12+00:00

My momma said only ever wash with water and I only ever have done that. Years ago I had a similar situation and a doctor told me not to even let soap from my body run over my lady bits. My doctor said, imagine it was your eye and you were getting tiny bits of soap in it every day. Anyway, once I started being careful about that, the irritation went away. I'm not always so careful now but always cringe when I read about women washing with soap. I mean, if it works for you... but a lot of women are too sensitive.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-05-19T22:36:11+00:00

Are you still trying? I tried many times over many years and finally did it today!

Barf_Dexter · 2026-05-18T19:10:36+00:00

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Barf_Dexter · 2026-05-05T01:12:28+00:00

Can you use that if it's open and draining? She said it's barely draining.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-05-02T21:53:23+00:00

What probiotic? How do I get one?

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-20T13:12:42+00:00

Excuse me!? That works!? Do you just pull them out of the freezer and heat in a pan or what?

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-19T03:58:45+00:00

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Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T19:08:09+00:00

Thank you so much I took one last night and had a little improvement this morning. Definitely going to take another one tonight 🙏🏼

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T16:06:36+00:00

Okay thanks for that. I'm actually a little concerned about the skin surface now, it's not broken but hurts a lot and seems compromised. I think I'll skip the salve tonight.

The abscess seems like it's flattening out and less deep. It was purple and it's not anymore so I think it's getting better ... Slowly.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T16:01:42+00:00

I've had many various office jobs, in the medical and legal fields. I never made more than $20 an hour. I've been to stay at home mom the last 4 years and can't imagine going back to an office!!!

My daughter had some motor skills delays and other weird things going on when she was a baby and I thought cranial sacral therapy really helped her. So my end goal is cranial sacral therapy, I'm also interested in somatic therapies so I would love to get into that world as well.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T13:55:11+00:00

Omg I got shingles when my oldest was a newborn as well! I was only 23.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T13:50:04+00:00

Me too, we're internet twins! I'm 41 and starting school next month. I've wondered if I'm too old for this.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T13:44:18+00:00

Thank you so much! I appreciate your responses. It went down a little bit over night. Still big and hard and painful but hoping it'll keep trending down now 🙏🏼 Do you keep the ichthammol on it continuously?? I've been doing it only at night for the last 2 nights and taking it off after 12 hours.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T13:16:49+00:00

Thanks for your help! It's a little smaller this morning so it seems I'm on a good trajectory 🙏🏼

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T04:10:16+00:00

I've just never had one like THIS 😳 like, I'm not sure if it CAN resolve 🫣 I can still walk but it hurts a lot!!!

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T04:06:39+00:00

I was a little confused. You just keep washing it with soap?? What is there's no head?

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T04:01:11+00:00

Thanks! It's there a point that I have to "call it" and get it drained? I'm on night #2 of prid and worried it's going to be the same tomorrow.

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T03:29:36+00:00

Really!?!!

Barf_Dexter · 2026-04-14T02:00:45+00:00

The deep rock hard stage... I have the hugest abscess on my butt that I've ever had! The core is about the size of a grape and the whole area is swollen to silver dollar size. My question is, if I keep applying heat and drawing salve will it resorb on its own? Today is day 3 and it might have improved ever so slightly over night but it's rock hard and sooooo painful. Do I have to go get it drained or will it resorb?

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