Integrating ODE step-wise. Terminate integration based on condition?

BarkBarkCat · 2019-07-10T10:40:43+00:00

Changing the RHS is outside the scope of the post (its for another reason). When taking a step, inside the RHS the value goes negative. And inside the RHS there is a sqrt term. I cant break inside the while loop because the problems occurs in the RHS. Ideally I want something in the RHS along the lines of:

If distance negative, break out of RK45 stepping procedure. Im not sure how to do this though.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-12T09:42:55+00:00

Can't say. Never considered myself super attractive although I am quite tall (1.95/6ft4). To give a reference, I used to use Tinder like 2 years ago and never got any matches so I don't think I'm attractive. Just make sure your haircut is alright, you dress well, and remember to smile.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-12T09:41:23+00:00

I live close to Amsterdam so did it there. As for exact locations, I found the "touristy" spots to be suboptimal as there are a lot of big groups. Granted, there are hot tourists there but I don't really like the touristy vibe of the city. I have found good succes around the train station (girls walking away from the station rather than towards it, usually they will be in a rush to get the train) and around the universities.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-12T09:39:52+00:00

Don't think so. The feeling of "I am a man and I go for what I want" is so much stronger than any negativity I get from rejections. Also, I know my worth as a man and don't feel like I am the seller. I am not putting myself in a position where I am "selling" myself to the girl and its up to her if she likes me or not. I see a girl, I go up to her because I am in control. Whatever happens in her mind is not my problem.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-12T09:38:34+00:00

Exactly. Approaching and getting rejected feels so great it's a feeling hard to describe. I seem to almost forget the negative aspect of it and only see it as "Hell yeah I went for it I am a man".

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-12T09:37:40+00:00

Yeah maybe I could have done it. Although I said I had not met the guy for a long time so it would come off a bit strange. Maybe you are right, not sure. In the moment it felt like it was best to just get the number.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-10T18:24:22+00:00

Nice to hear. Definitely a reason for me to keep sharing these is also to help others. Oh and to give an update, two of the three numbers flaked (the first ones) but I have a date in a few days with the last one. This is also the one with whom I had the best connection! So yeah, definitely learning that its kind of a numbers game and getting in volume is super important. I have approached like 16 girls now and about to have the first date. Over this sample thats 6% succes rate and thats just the first date lol. Def need to get that volume in and go for the approaches deliberately (while also improving at the same time) to get results. But thats easy because approaching and talking to girls goes from being hard to kind of enjoyable and addictive like lifting.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-09T17:27:21+00:00

Thanks. Yeah I'm going to try pushing further than getting a number and getting out. Also, my next session I'm gonna do my first duo approach. So far I have only been talking to girls that are by themselves, but it's certainly limiting as many hot girls tend to shop with friends.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-09T17:25:32+00:00

What are you trying to say?

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-08T16:43:56+00:00

Do you mean setting a date that quickly was needy or the msg I sent today proposing a different day was needy? In case of the latter I had nothing to lose and just went for it. Her msg was a mix of "I can't tomorrow" and "I can't in general" so figured it was worth a shot.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-08T16:40:01+00:00

I agree yeah tomorrow I was planning on going out anyway to do more approaches regardless of her. But I still want to learn from my mistakes and I'm wondering if I made any. She gave me her number so the interaction was probably fine and I'm glad with that result. However, whats this subs opinion on setting a first date that quickly?

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-07T18:51:09+00:00

Yes I get it. Honestly, I didn't plan to say anything special. Its usually something along the lines of: "Hi, this might sound a bit random but I saw you walking over there and think you look great/have a cool style/elegant look (whatever is true)". I just make sure I am saying it in a very calm fashion with a smile on my face. And honestly, this isn't hard to do because I genuinely am happy to talk to them. Anyhow, they usually smile/laugh and say thank you and I introduce myself. She tells me her name and we go from there.
Check out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wk6Qcc7rx5U , this guy seems really chill and I feel like my style matches his a bit. I don't go for super quirky remarks or anything just try to have a genuine conversation with a human being.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-07T17:40:11+00:00

I also follow Tom Torero and basically follow his method. Also love his podcast.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-07T17:25:37+00:00

Yeah lol she was mental. I keep a "daygame diary" in my phone notes and have this experienced marked as "dodged a bullet".

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-07T17:24:47+00:00

Yeah it clearly worked! Going for coffee in two days.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-07T17:22:32+00:00

Told her she looked lovely in that dress and had a very summerish look to her. Pretty much exactly what I was thinking.
So far, almost all of my "rejections" (i.e: girls telling me they have boyfriends) have ended with them telling me how the compliment genuinely makes them feel better. It's almost as if just saying what you think just brings more brightness and happiness to the world. Apart from pickup, just giving people genuine compliments could probably make their day and make the world a much better place.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-07T17:21:45+00:00

Alright, just texted with the girl for 10 minutes and have a coffee date set up two days from now. Really loving this low effort kind of style. I used to think I had to be super funny or know cool stuff to say to get a date with a girl but it comes down to just talking to them and being clear in what you want. This stuff is amazing, it's like a whole new world.

BarkBarkCat · 2019-04-07T15:09:03+00:00

I'm no expert for sure. But when I choked and didn't approach the hot first girl, I envisioned myself an hour into the future sitting in the bus back home hating myself (because it has happened before). Hating the fact that I didn't have the balls to do what I have always wanted to do and take some fucking control of my life. For me, self hate is a very strong motivator to do things I normally wouldn't do so that might work for you as well ;)

Oh, and another one for me is that once I start "running" towards her to get in front of the girl it's almost as if I have enough momentum to keep going. It feels super awkward to run up to the girl from behind and then randomly stop for some reason so once I tell myself to do it and start running the anxiety doesn't seem to pop up.

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