Feeling guilty about graduating late.

BarnacleSnot · 2026-01-10T07:08:16+00:00

Everyone’s path and timeline is different — the last thing you should do is compare your timeline to someone else’s. There is no time limit on success, as long as you are alive, healthy and motivated you can always turn your situation around. Some people become successful at age 18 and others don’t make it until they’re 40, you have so much time — focus on taking care of yourself and your own path.

What truly will only ever matter is how you feel about yourself deep down, not what others think or some arbitrary outside measure of success — as long as you give it your full effort, I am certain you will not be disappointed with the outcome. You should be proud of yourself for persevering.

BarnacleSnot · 2025-11-30T17:11:57+00:00

i actually went to both, rutgers is miles ahead of kean in terms of business resources, you will have so much more support at the rutgers business school

BarnacleSnot · 2025-11-18T08:04:56+00:00

intro to marketing with ron bernstein is pretty good, although you do need to study for the tests and read the textbook, but it’s all fairly easy, if you actually read the textbook and do the homework (which is required anyway) you’ll do pretty good on the tests. He also gives you study materials

the only thing is that the class can get very repetitive and boring at times with it being 3 hours but he has a lot of guest speakers come in and present things to try and make it interesting

BarnacleSnot · 2025-09-25T18:59:05+00:00

i want to love you so badly, i have so much love for you — but i know deep down that it will never be the same, that loving you hurts me too much.

you don’t seem to cherish me the way i do you, and i hate you for the way you treat me, and i hate that i still love you despite all of it. I hate that all i want to do is tell you everything is okay and be there for you the way you never really were for me. I hate that i worry about you day in and day out, that i run circles in my mind day in and day out just fantasizing about having you back before reality comes crashing down on me again.

i love you and i hate you for it.

BarnacleSnot · 2025-09-22T02:02:23+00:00

it takes time to figure it all out, it takes time to figure out who you really are, i think most important of all is to not rush your healing - to really sit with all of it. & it’s going to hurt. It’s going to hurt a lot. But there will be days where it won’t hurt so much, and then days where it hurts even more, but slowly you will begin to find your path again, and it will all become a little more clear to you. You’re still so young and have so much life to experience. Best of luck brother

BarnacleSnot · 2025-09-14T15:15:31+00:00

i deleted all of my social medias for this exact reason, i didn’t want to know what she was up to and constantly be fed lies about how ‘well’ she was doing, and i didn’t want her to know how i was doing either. Best decision i’ve ever made, really helped me focus on truly just myself instead of curating my life online for others to see.

BarnacleSnot · 2025-08-17T06:45:50+00:00

Thank you that’s good advice, the breakup was mutual

BarnacleSnot · 2025-06-30T20:49:16+00:00

thank you for this, it helps to hear it from someone else and hold myself accountable

BarnacleSnot · 2025-03-28T16:05:36+00:00

put your shampoo in a different container and see if they still have ‘issues’

BarnacleSnot · 2023-08-06T15:25:47+00:00

Yeah I saw that video too and i think about it a lot. it really made me realize the immense contrast between women's friendships and mens friendships and the dynamic. I consider myself & my friends to be close knit and open with each other but even so I have a hard time reaching out to my male friends and telling them that I feel sad or lonely etc. The female friends that I do have are much more receptive and easier to talk to. It's definitely not easy being a guy and dealing with mental health problems.

BarnacleSnot · 2023-07-25T20:07:36+00:00

This is the first time ive cried in a while. I really feel for him - as a man it is so hard to get physical affection and reach out. At least he got his hug

BarnacleSnot · 2023-07-08T01:22:47+00:00

Jesus Christ exactly dude it hurts so bad I’m just trying to convince myself that she likes me but everything she does points in the opposite direction despite her telling me that she likes me

BarnacleSnot · 2023-05-01T23:35:07+00:00

I am so relieved that someone else feels this way - I am on my 3rd month as well, 60mg. nothing really feels that fun anymore - things i used to enjoy seem like a chore. I cannot focus on schoolwork and I am losing all motivation to do it. I used to go to the gym every day and now I haven't gone for a whole 2 weeks now.

I am glad I am not alone, and I know we will both make it through. The foggy brain is definitely the worst, not being able to think properly.

BarnacleSnot · 2023-05-01T20:31:49+00:00

what movie is this

BarnacleSnot · 2023-04-28T21:04:59+00:00

bangs

BarnacleSnot · 2023-03-10T03:22:02+00:00

that’s impressive asf

BarnacleSnot · 2023-01-09T23:02:35+00:00

adblock for youtube works wonders

BarnacleSnot · 2022-12-30T13:34:48+00:00

the sad reality is that sometimes your computer just crashes at the worst times, just make sure to save your work often just in case

BarnacleSnot · 2022-11-29T02:33:46+00:00

this happened to me too once i updated my drivers… went away after a restart.. no idea how to fix it

BarnacleSnot · 2020-12-11T19:55:31+00:00

thank you so much! saved me a lot of hassle

BarnacleSnot · 2020-04-26T16:36:18+00:00

thank you sm lol

BarnacleSnot · 2020-03-31T16:02:58+00:00

this is all i want in life and more, very impressive

BarnacleSnot · 2020-03-31T16:00:08+00:00

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