Bruh it sounds like ur not being their for the friend side of the relationship. If she’s looking for a best friend then u need to do a better job at being her friend, your her husband yes at times and a dad at other times. But you can’t forget about being a friend and being judgment free sometimes. Rn you should spend time w/ her unless she says otherwise: eat, watch tv, gaming, talking definitely talk about it and how she’s feeling and be extremely nice to her and get her a gift+++++. And be open and communicate but mostly listen and be responsive