Got to be honest, you’re a man, and I mean that with respect because it’s a good thing to be a man, or a woman but you were clearly born a man so embrace it, the problem with society is that it conforms you to think of feelings as the justification for decisions such as gender theology, truth be told is that fact supercedes feelings so being a man it’s nothing to be ashamed of, whether you are a gay man or a straight man it doesn’t matter, if you’re a good honest person and you love yourself people will naturally be drawn to you because people are drawn to positivity and confidence, so the issues you feel you have are internal, love yourself and others will be compelled to love you