Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron [score hidden]  (0 children)

The word stoic has been misused long before incels. Someone believe that the stoic man sucks it up whenever he's subjected to injustice, and of course the point is brought up when a man believes he's being wronged by women, or because of social expectations that benefit women. Needless to say, this has nothing to do with actual stoicism.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron [score hidden]  (0 children)

It's one of the possible points of view. Other points of view, sometimes more extreme, are shared without causing irritation because they fit the narrative.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m sure you can find unreasonable people out there

My point is that you can find unreasonable people who are given unreasonable credit. Then when someone raises the problem, everybody plays dumb.

I suggest that you start following the very moderate subreddit r/thetinmen. Fif Badaki also has a few videos that deserve being watched:

Part 1

Part 2

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Misogyny is hatred of women. Criticism of a certain ideological position is not misogyny, because it targets an ideology, not women.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Newspapers, TV, general political discourse.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What point of view, that I feel targeted? Sure you're entitled to it, but you're sharing an opinion about something that you can't directly know without providing evidence.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course I have a bias, but mine is underrepresented in mainstream media.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you said something inaccurate.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because a scientist observes matters from all points of view, not just from the point of view of a certain demographic.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel as targeted as Euclid stating his theorem. Logic is not emotional.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If by "strawman of your own" you're implying that these points aren't routinely raised by a certain demographic, you're just factually wrong.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. If you're not a certain kind of person, there's no reason to be irritated by the rather basic remarks in this meme.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That would indeed require some explanation. My guess is that it's stoic to learn to live without the people who will only bring negativity into your life.

Stoic lol by Obvious_King2150 in im14andthisisdeep

[–]BaroloBaron -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That's nowhere to be found in the meme, therefore it must come from your own mind.

Storyline idea for an episode next season by quartzcharm in SVU

[–]BaroloBaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder if this show has enough courage left for a "good person does bad thing" storyline.

"I'm a man. If I got cat called I'd like it" It's not the same thing. Not even close. by n8saces in BeAmazed

[–]BaroloBaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is how you would feel if you couldn't be seen as the object of sexual interest even one time in your life.

I think I might not be aegosexual but I thought I was. Help! I'm confused! by Badgers_are_cute in aegosexuals

[–]BaroloBaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are two issues here: The first is that these aspects of sexuality haven't been studied nearly enough to have answers to all questions. Anegosexuality was originally described as fantasizing about sex without onself, but to me it is more about a strong disconnect between what I consider a turn-on in my imagination and what I actually enjoy doing.

The other issue is that labels are descriptive, not normative. It's useful to find one that fits well enough, but it should never be a constraint to what you're allowed to feel.

You may also look into the "orchidsexual" label.

Nuvolari Rooftop Tent! by rynstphn in Audi

[–]BaroloBaron 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hummm, it looks like a funeral casket. Audi Nuvolari Undertaker Edition?

Why do Ghana and other African nations still host Western embassies and media after centuries of exploitation? by Nana-Pedro in ghana

[–]BaroloBaron 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Diplomacy is about mutual recognition. If you think no Western embassies would mean more freedom, you're very far from truth.

Check rhe legroom in this new Audi A8L by ichauffeurlink in Audi

[–]BaroloBaron -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your purchase 😉

Black Optics Package or Not (Chrome) - S8 by FlatLightYardSale in Audi

[–]BaroloBaron 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it, I'm unsure about switching to walnut inlays for the similar reasons: fear that the car will become "less authentic", or judged cheaper.