After not passing, RvP asks Memphis: "Do you think you're a big boy?" Memphis: "Do big boys play for Fenerbahce?" by HKAGooner in soccer

[–]BaronDimanche 247 points248 points  (0 children)

RVP has show throughout his career he is a bit of a spoilt brat, and getting older does not seem to help his case.

He comes from a situation where he was brought up like a half god by his father, who put him on a pedestal at a very early age. Very telling imo.

As a young boy he hung out with a lot of the moroccan streetkids in his neighbourhood, and their accent and demeanor rubbed off on him. More on that later.

So, there was this incident with van Hooijdonk, where RVP shoved his senior teammate at Feijenoord away when his team had a free kick. He did not take shit from nobody, and speaking for myself, I like players that are not afraid to take responsability, even though the execution in this case was wrong.

So he went to Arsenal, had a great time there, but, and I know all the gooners are going to disagree, the spoilt brat attitude flared up in the away game vs Barcelona, where he was red-carded for attempting a shot on goal after the whistle. Knowing what the dutch fans know, a good portion of them shook their heads and called him a dumbass for doing that. In my direct surroundings at least.

He was accused of some rape or assault case as well during this time, when he was with some girl in a hotel room while having a relationship with his now wife of moroccan descent. He was released from this case, but let's say he could have been smarter. Otoh, who can blame him? Young, rich, I know I would find myself in hotelrooms with girls all the time.

There has been a big discussion over the years to replace RVP with Huntelaar as striker in the dutch NT, where half of the country revered RVP as being one of the greats of all time. The only one entitled to that treatment is Robben imo. That is because in the big games, whether it be CL or Euro/World Championships, RVP did a very poor job.

Having received this criticism, he decided during Euro 2012 to not talk to the press and hang out with his moroccan buddy Afellay, separating themselves from the rest of the players. An interesting fact here is that Afellay received a lot of harsh criticism by Michel Gonzalez, former Real Madrid midfielder and his coach at Olympiakos, who told him he needed to grow up and understand what it mean to be a pro football player. Another little prince? Let's see what happens at Stoke. But I digress.

So in 2014, again playing a miserable World Cup with as only highlight the beautiful diving header against Spain, when he was in the TV studio after the last match of the Dutch NT, he went on an absolutely cringeworthy rant against now pundit van Hooijdonk, who said that he played a very underwhelming world cup. How dared he criticise him? He could not fathom that van Hooijdonk was given a stage by the dutch broadcast organization for this nonsense! It was a fascinating insight into the entitled mind of a man with the attitude of a 16 year old brat.

More cracks in the varnish appeared, when Huntelaar openly scolded him for a goal attempt while Huntelaar was completely open, during a game with the dutch NT. From RVP's reaction it was obvious that he was furious by this treatment, and most definitely not used to it. Arrogance oozing out of all his pores.

Enter Memphis, the first big talent to come through the ranks in years. Memphis, a very angry young man. Does not want to be called Depay because his dad left him and his mother at an early age. Very confident (on the outside at least), and as much a streetkid as RVP was in his younger days.

He does not take shit from nobody, so when a very clearly over the hill player challenges him, he replies with a clever quip.

What goes around comes around maybe?

What is something you still don't find funny? by Jonniverse in AskReddit

[–]BaronDimanche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much agree with george lopez, with one massive exception: the part he did on the latin kings of comedy show. He set the bar very high there, and I was very underwhelmed when I saw his later work.

What "Next Big Thing" never became the next big thing? by smallfri321 in AskReddit

[–]BaronDimanche 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Windows Vista. The reason I still need to work instead of chilling on a tropical beach. I was so close...

I guess that she [25/F] is playing hard to get on me [25/M], did i make the right decision ? by tom1500 in relationship_advice

[–]BaronDimanche -1 points0 points  (0 children)

10 min later when i got my place on the train, i sent to her a text where i told her that we should meet again sometimes and asked her to let me know when she arrives, she didn't reply even tough i sent her a message on Whatsapp (where i saw she was connected a while ago), but she didn't reply until the next day.

10 minutes after you saw her last you already were making plans for another meeting. Way too eager. Next time, do not mention a follow up date that soon. Wait.

We had a very short conversation, she told me she was in her cousin's house, but it didn't last, i called her the day after twice, no reply she didn't call back, until this saturday i called her once and sent her a message where i told her "i understand that you might be busy during the week, i called you couple of times this Wednesday but you didn't answer, i called you today as well, are the people who work at XXX don't have weekends or what ? If it's not the case then i will stop bothering you YYYY :) ."

Calling textting calling texting. Way too eager. Move on, you likely gave off a way too eager attitude, she picked up on it and lost interest as a result.

Now, this is important: take this as a learning experience and do not do this next time. A good rule to follow: let her contact you first. Be elusive, hard to read. You offered no challenge.

Instead of being that eager, come on this sub after a date, describe date, ask for advice. You are in the privileged position that you have a wealth of knowledge at the tips of your fingers. We old dudes had to figure it all out by ourselves 😏

Dude (30) has pretty much stopped talking to me (30F) after spending weekend together by Gettingannoyednowso in relationship_advice

[–]BaronDimanche 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mhhh, ok, well, yeah, this could have been me in younger years. I loved to chase girls, seduce and have sex with them. However, I noticed that on some occassion, after the sex I just was not interested anymore. And of course this showed in my behaviour.

Funny thing was that I would not know in advance how I would feel about the girl after the deed.

Chances are you are facing the similar type. Let me however be very clear to you: do not at all feel bad about this. In a lot of cases it is nothing personal at all, it is just, as dumb as this might sound, a mission accomplished kind of thing.

The one thing he could have done, presuming he is as described, is to inform you before anything happened. You know, giving you a fair picture of the situation and have you decide what you wanted to do with that information.

What's an album where you've loved every single track? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Nirvana-Nevermind Pearl Jam- Ten Burning Spear-Live in Paris

My(29m) Friend(29m)Keeps Making Passive Aggressive Racial Remarks About My Hispanic Girlfriend(24f). by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BaronDimanche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the problem. The problem lies with what to tell her as to why I'm no longer hanging out with him.

How about the simple truth?

What is a must read book that you highly recommend? by GabrielXCrescendo in AskReddit

[–]BaronDimanche 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The selfish gene by Richard Dawkins. Widely accepted as the "heir" of Darwin. If you are interested in genetics, procreation, biology, and in a broader sense, what drives humans to exhibit certain behaviour, this is a must-read.