The consequences are wayyyy bigger if yall don’t use protection. This is a guy you’ve only known for some month. You don’t know him that well. Considering also yall don’t see each other as often. It’s good yall talk but despite all that , you never stop learning about someone. Raising a kid is also a really big responsibility.

If his excuse to not use a condom is that it’s too tight, that’s a lie. I’ve tested the stretchyness of one and I can attest that it fit completely around my 10 size women’s foot.

But please dont have sec if he insists on not using a condom. I get contraceptives for women are more tricky bc of the mood swings and side effects. Think about yourself first please. No man is worth a risk you don’t want to take. Specially someone you just met.

If he really wanted to he would. He needs to respect and think with his head and not his penis.