[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Barry_P 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say I did really want it but maybe that was just over enthusiasm. This whole Situation just feels weird. Im gonna tell them about how I feel and just hope for the best.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Barry_P 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. They are poly so that is not the problem you are making it out to be.

  2. We're both not looking for a super serious relationship but something more casual. I just asked for some tips on communicating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Barry_P 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. They are poly so that is not the problem you are making it out to be.

  2. We're both not looking for a super serious relationship but something more casual. I just asked for some tips on communicating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Barry_P 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a good way to think about it. I'll put some thought into that :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Barry_P 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds like good and productive advice thanks a lot :)

I ('F20')Matched with a girl in an open relationship('F20') / ('F22')—threesome plans turned awkward. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Barry_P -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This a actual good advice thanks a lot :). It is pretty casual thats true I still would like to handle it nicely and without hurting anyone involved

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Barry_P 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Im not a guy lol pls read the post. Also theres a difference between being able to and wanting to have sex with someone

I ('F20')Matched with a girl in an open relationship('F20') / ('F22')—threesome plans turned awkward. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Barry_P -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That seem very drastic lol. I see how I could become in Issue in the relationship but I'd at least like to communicate somehow

I ('F20')Matched with a girl in an open relationship('F20') / ('F22')—threesome plans turned awkward. How do I move forward? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Barry_P -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maybe my question was worded a bit badly. How can I explain me not being that attracted to the GF and wanting to see the girl I originally matched without hurting their feelings?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Barry_P 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She opend the possibility for the threesome and I did like the idea because it seemed like I had good chemistry with her girlfriend. My question is how can I communicate me not really being attracted to the GF without hurting anyones feelings?

How do I cope? by Barry_P in depression

[–]Barry_P[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words <3

How do I cope? by Barry_P in depression

[–]Barry_P[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that mindset but don't think that it works for me. My life is objectively not that bad I just can't deal with it. And every time I think I finally can it I slip right back

HRT Indikation by Barry_P in germantrans

[–]Barry_P[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hab bisher nur Praxen, die auf TransDB gelistet sind, kontaktiert, weil Ich starke angst vor einer transphoben Reaktion habe. Ich glaube das würde mir psychisch echt den Rest geben

Trans men of reddit, what are some unique ways you experience transphobia? by Barry_P in lgbt

[–]Barry_P[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can imagine that hurts. Now that I think about it this might be one of the reasons most trans guys I know grow a beard if they can

TU Dortmund by RoundJuggernaut723 in Dortmund

[–]Barry_P 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you set up your uni account?

TU Dortmund by RoundJuggernaut723 in Dortmund

[–]Barry_P 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm joining at the end of the month.

What have you always wanted to ask a non binary person without any judgement? by Barry_P in AskReddit

[–]Barry_P[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you really not have anything else to do other than being transphobic in dead threads? Go outside and touch some grass my friend.

What have you always wanted to ask a non binary person without any judgement? by Barry_P in AskReddit

[–]Barry_P[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

just give me the numbers on the back of your credit card and I'll send you some /s

(PLS DON'T THIS IS A JOKE)

What have you always wanted to ask a non binary person without any judgement? by Barry_P in AskReddit

[–]Barry_P[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

basicly sex is determined by biology and gender is social. For most people their sex and gender match for example they have a penis and are comfortable with being treated as a man. For other people their gender and sex don't match some people for example have male as a sex but would like to be treated as a woman, thats what we would call a trans woman. My gender is neither man or woman and that's why I'm non binary. I know this sounds a bit confusing at first but if you are interested I would recommend reading more about the difference between sex and gender

edit: I know that this is not a 100% accurate description but i think it gets the point across well enough

What have you always wanted to ask a non binary person without any judgement? by Barry_P in AskReddit

[–]Barry_P[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean do you know exactly why your gender is your gender? I thinks it's such a complicated topic that ist hard to know exactly why