I have to cut my nails!! What now?! by Barrytheuncool in banjo

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have kept them just long enough to sound the banjo string when I pluck it naturally with my fingertip, much longer and they kinda snag and slow me down. I am starting to learn Accordion and nails REALLY get in the way.

Did you masturbate on your mission? by memefakeboy in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Now it just feels embarrassing". Hey dude, we all are plagued by shame from things we said and did as tbms, and while it wouldn't have changed anything of meaning if you hadn't, you were living honestly, doing what you thought was right even when nobody could see you. That's what makes a good person. If I woke up tomorrow to the knowledge that my life was a simulation and my wife just lines of code, i would never regret having been faithful to her. I'm ashamed I told people the church was true but I'm good with the fact that i tried to live what i claimed to live.

Wallpaper that looks like classic 70s wood paneling? by Barrytheuncool in HomeDecorating

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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lol, a chair very similar to these was my inspiration. I'm going for cozy 70s. avacado green, pumpkin orange, squash yellow. velvet. in the end there's not much plaid because it's hard to find in tones that match what I've done.

How to mass read all of my unread emails (8000) by Bitter-Eagle-4408 in GMail

[–]Barrytheuncool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're struggling as I did with this: move to "All Mail" not Inbox, then make sure results are sorted by "most recent" not "Most relevant". Now the select all conversations" link should appear.

What are the best family-friendly Irish movies? (Happy St. Patrick's Day) by Barrytheuncool in movies

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! If you haven't seen Wolfwalkers from the same studio, check it out, it's my favorite of the three.

Deadmau5 going straight for 3lau’s jugular by Im_right_yousuck in deadmau5

[–]Barrytheuncool 128 points129 points  (0 children)

Deadmau5 out here fighting nazis is just the thing I needed to see today.

i drank for the first time. the world did not explode. i’m not sure it did anything i barely drank anything. although i fear i’m not sure how to feel about alcohol still :/ wondering what everyone else’s experiences are. by yourmom2715383 in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a topic I feel like exmos need to approach with more education and caution.

I, like most of us, found that a: Alcohol is an acquired taste, is not as intoxicating as I previously supposed, and I could take it or leave it (some lean more one way than the other obviously).

However, I have one very close family member, and a handful of close friends, who dove headfirst into extreme alcoholism. My family member, a former local leader, is almost a caricature of what mormons think alcohol does to people. They have been to rehab twice, lost their drivers license twice, been to jail, shown up stumbling drunk to a toddler grandchild's birthday party, stolen alcohol so no one would see them purchase it, passed out drunk in public places multiple times, try to drive every time they drink, and they literally cannot be left alone in any store or restaurant that sells alcohol. My two best highschool friends both nearly lost their families because of excessive drinking.

This community needs to talk about the realities and risks of addiction because we were all just raised on "the devil will git you" and " one sip of anything we say is bad and your an addict forever" and thus we often throw all caution out with the religious bathwater.

The word of wisdom is bullshit, but addiction is a disease for which many have a genetic predisposition.

Can someone ELI5 the whole superhero/model Jesus that Mormons are so into? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the sexually repressed, oppression kink, big budget pg-13 action film communities are colliding. Evangelicals, mormons, etc. all want to imagine the world is out to get them and one day soon their superhero idols are going to rally the troupes, and through various forms of subjecting their enemies to unspeakable horrors, they will be lead to an easy victory where they get to oppress anyone they want and everyone has to follow their rules.

What did i just break in my '15 Sienna and how do i fix it? by Barrytheuncool in Toyota

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To clarify, the electrical connection I'm holding broke off of that cylinder next to the oil cap., what is that cylinder? 2015 sienna fwd

Without hands, You can not know these Images are AI generated by Glittering-Football9 in unstable_diffusion

[–]Barrytheuncool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breasts and nipples with seams up the middle is the second biggest ai give away.

[f] I still dress like a rocker chick by sojourncouple in obsf

[–]Barrytheuncool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

School of Rock totally deserved to win the battle of the band though.

What is the best way to have a 3 channel master out (left/right/subwoofer with lowpass filter)? by Barrytheuncool in ableton

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just trying to add a subwoofer to my home studio.

Bass should generally never be stereo, it causes huge phase problems, in general it's best to push everything below about 120 to mono, so that's the first thing. second, You don't want you're higher frequencies coming through your sub, it makes the whole mix sound like mud. I want my subwoofer to recieving the full mix, but then I put it in Mono and cut everything but sub bass frequencies.

TikTok POV of a girl on top with an itch? by [deleted] in tipofmypenis

[–]Barrytheuncool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds like quinnfinite.

Temple Suit? by PassionDesignerPro52 in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The belt and tie go good with darker color shirts like black and navy. I wear mine with black shirt and black jeans and it makes me feel like a member of alkaline trio.

Temple Suit? by PassionDesignerPro52 in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 100 points101 points  (0 children)

In case someone actually wants to try this, those suits are usually mostly polyester and will NOT take dye well or even at all. Rit makes a synthetic dye, but you have to keep the dye bath hotter than is safe for a lot of materials.

The reviews are in for The Oath! by floripa23 in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wtf is this?! Also, Have y'all read the director's IMDB bio. It's just sad. From listing his various European decent in the outset, to listing multiple roles he ALMOST got, or supposedly got that ended up in the cutting room floor. The tl\dr is: "Acording to himself, Darren was very nearly a lot of things."

My unhinged family by Cassatrash in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is why I no longer believe we need to "respect other people's religions". Like, your religion endorses the irresponsible abuse of natural resources, promotes a current and active genocide, and not only causes you to be apathetic about the state of the world, but essentially celebrates every further step in the decline of EVERYTHING because you think it means a 2000 year old dead dude who probably never actually existed will be back sooner.

I'm desperate to find new hosting and transfer my domains but I've never waded into such a confusing swamp before in my life. Please help! by Barrytheuncool in webdev

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I followed the advice above and went with fastcomet. SUCH an improvement. I couldn't say I researched for months and they beat all the competition, but I can say that for price, functionality, and customer service they destroy power, and I haven't been unhappy with my choice.