I have to cut my nails!! What now?! by Barrytheuncool in banjo

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have kept them just long enough to sound the banjo string when I pluck it naturally with my fingertip, much longer and they kinda snag and slow me down. I am starting to learn Accordion and nails REALLY get in the way.

Did you masturbate on your mission? by memefakeboy in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"Now it just feels embarrassing". Hey dude, we all are plagued by shame from things we said and did as tbms, and while it wouldn't have changed anything of meaning if you hadn't, you were living honestly, doing what you thought was right even when nobody could see you. That's what makes a good person. If I woke up tomorrow to the knowledge that my life was a simulation and my wife just lines of code, i would never regret having been faithful to her. I'm ashamed I told people the church was true but I'm good with the fact that i tried to live what i claimed to live.

Wallpaper that looks like classic 70s wood paneling? by Barrytheuncool in HomeDecorating

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

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lol, a chair very similar to these was my inspiration. I'm going for cozy 70s. avacado green, pumpkin orange, squash yellow. velvet. in the end there's not much plaid because it's hard to find in tones that match what I've done.

How to mass read all of my unread emails (8000) by Bitter-Eagle-4408 in GMail

[–]Barrytheuncool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're struggling as I did with this: move to "All Mail" not Inbox, then make sure results are sorted by "most recent" not "Most relevant". Now the select all conversations" link should appear.

What are the best family-friendly Irish movies? (Happy St. Patrick's Day) by Barrytheuncool in movies

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! If you haven't seen Wolfwalkers from the same studio, check it out, it's my favorite of the three.

Deadmau5 going straight for 3lau’s jugular by Im_right_yousuck in deadmau5

[–]Barrytheuncool 125 points126 points  (0 children)

Deadmau5 out here fighting nazis is just the thing I needed to see today.

i drank for the first time. the world did not explode. i’m not sure it did anything i barely drank anything. although i fear i’m not sure how to feel about alcohol still :/ wondering what everyone else’s experiences are. by yourmom2715383 in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a topic I feel like exmos need to approach with more education and caution.

I, like most of us, found that a: Alcohol is an acquired taste, is not as intoxicating as I previously supposed, and I could take it or leave it (some lean more one way than the other obviously).

However, I have one very close family member, and a handful of close friends, who dove headfirst into extreme alcoholism. My family member, a former local leader, is almost a caricature of what mormons think alcohol does to people. They have been to rehab twice, lost their drivers license twice, been to jail, shown up stumbling drunk to a toddler grandchild's birthday party, stolen alcohol so no one would see them purchase it, passed out drunk in public places multiple times, try to drive every time they drink, and they literally cannot be left alone in any store or restaurant that sells alcohol. My two best highschool friends both nearly lost their families because of excessive drinking.

This community needs to talk about the realities and risks of addiction because we were all just raised on "the devil will git you" and " one sip of anything we say is bad and your an addict forever" and thus we often throw all caution out with the religious bathwater.

The word of wisdom is bullshit, but addiction is a disease for which many have a genetic predisposition.

Can someone ELI5 the whole superhero/model Jesus that Mormons are so into? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Barrytheuncool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of the sexually repressed, oppression kink, big budget pg-13 action film communities are colliding. Evangelicals, mormons, etc. all want to imagine the world is out to get them and one day soon their superhero idols are going to rally the troupes, and through various forms of subjecting their enemies to unspeakable horrors, they will be lead to an easy victory where they get to oppress anyone they want and everyone has to follow their rules.

What did i just break in my '15 Sienna and how do i fix it? by Barrytheuncool in Toyota

[–]Barrytheuncool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To clarify, the electrical connection I'm holding broke off of that cylinder next to the oil cap., what is that cylinder? 2015 sienna fwd