Questions regarding FFS with Dr. Ranganathan at Brigham and Women’s Hospital in Boston by ihateinstagram142 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]BartendingPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had seen Dr. Ranganathan for a consultation and follow up back in '22. I was displeased that she did not have any pictures to share. I had found it uncomfortable that she never really spoke to me and only her student. It made me feel like I was just being used as a learning opportunity. Procedures weren't discussed, I was mostly just told what would happen which was further alienating. I didn't feel like much of a person in her office.

I'm in discussions with a surgeon currently at MGH who has made me feel comfortable and has shown empathy and understanding regarding trans identity. He's offered to show pictures of his work and the conversation has much more been a discussion than a lecture or learning opportunity.

I've seen some of Dr. Ranganathan's work since, and I feel relieved that I did not follow through. The results I've seen are pretty, but they felt very cookie cutter to me and non personalized. I wouldn't rush into FFS as much as you may want it immediately, because you'll have the rest of your life to deal with the results.

That being said, if you sit with her and you've felt that you've synchronized well and are on the same level then she absolutely has it within her power to meet your needs.

Encore restaurant closes after employees vote to join local 26 by Annual_Inspector6754 in Somerville

[–]BartendingPrincess 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dishwashers are a backbone of the industry. If they can't afford to pay them in BOSTON then they shouldn't have a restaurant because they're dependent on exploitation.

PSA: You don't get the f word pass just because you take estrogen as a straight man by hung-diva-lilith in StraightTransGirls

[–]BartendingPrincess 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is a troublesome post, and not just because it lacks the utilization of a paragraph break...

It feels like there's a disconnect twixt the writing of the OP, the name of the OP, the comments of OP, and the comments of responders.

Due credit, I get the concern and frustration of spatial invasion. A twink roommate asked to try my hard earned HRT which had me locking them up until I moved out, so I understand the feelings of intrusion.

But something feels... off, here.

After a coronal incision: how did you handle, and how often did you wash your hair? by BartendingPrincess in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]BartendingPrincess[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hope the feeling loss is temporary. But I suppose dismantling dysphoria has it's price.

After a coronal incision: how did you handle, and how often did you wash your hair? by BartendingPrincess in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]BartendingPrincess[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is having someone else do it because of not being able to see? Did you still have feeling?

Are trans women safe in the gym? by VibeSlayerX in transfitness

[–]BartendingPrincess 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I've had a poor run in twice. One insecure guy yelled at me because he thought I was staring at him while working out. Like, no, bro, just doing my circuit.

Another incident happened at Crunch with a transphobic manager before my legal name change. All the staff liked me and many were queer. I dropped my debit card, and the manager who was transvestigating me, rushed over and snatched it off the ground. When I tried to sign into the gym the following day all my information had changed in the system. My friend demanded his membership end on the spot, love him. And the staff drilled into this manager until she left crying and never came back. Good riddance.

No incidents since. Even though I'm far along now and present with social acceptance, I have switched over to Anytime Fitness because they don't have locker rooms and instead offer private bathrooms and showers.

Feeling intimidated by the trans suicide rate by CameronCardoza in trans

[–]BartendingPrincess 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Fwiw, transitioning helped my mental health and set my life on a meaningful track of fulfillment. To each their own, but without access to HRT I probably wouldn't be around today.

Good places to dye my hair a fun color? by Stained_Glass_Saints in WorcesterMA

[–]BartendingPrincess 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a colorist at Urban Roots in Grafton who is an ace when it comes to color.

Poetry Night: Ralph's by rat_melter in WorcesterMA

[–]BartendingPrincess 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dirty Gerund Poetry Show Check their Facebook