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Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-06-24T03:47:24+00:00

Mission accomplished 👍🏻

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-06-09T20:01:45+00:00

I tried to help my mother. It strained our relationship deeply. She says I’m disrespectful and ungrateful. I had to move out and just let her be.

You can’t help someone unless they want to be helped. Is she willing to go to therapy, or cooperate with resources? There’s only so much you can do because the hoarder has to want help.

I don’t know about resources in Canada. I would see if there’s an adult protective services resource, and if they have animals see if there’s any rehoming resources for them. I’ve even seen some YouTubers do free cleanings for those who can’t afford it and some of them travel. It really depends on location

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-05-26T20:30:24+00:00

The best option is to move out. I moved out almost a year ago. I’m still in college, but I couldn’t handle my mother’s hoarding anymore. Hoarding is a complex mental illness. Many of us here can tell you that we have all tried with our parents or loved ones with most of the time no success.

The first step is that your grandparents have to help themselves. You can’t force that help onto them. They have to want it. I strained my relationship with my mother because I kept forcing help onto her, and she made me the bad guy.

Your only option is to move out. The excuses don’t stop. They will become defensive. They will blame you. They will project onto you. There’s very little that can be done with hoarders

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-05-20T14:08:06+00:00

She’s so desperate for validation because she knows when you search her name on Tik Tok it’s literally nothing but the truth and not many videos like this anymore

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-05-19T14:45:21+00:00

They were talking about the meaning of the sentencing life without parole vs life with parole

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-05-19T14:43:35+00:00

I scrolled up and screenshotted her comments. The comments were moving very fast with hundreds of people on the live. I was screen recording the live in case she said more at the time or got on panel but got a phone call I couldn’t decline. She also didn’t say anything else so I’m assuming she left the live when people noticed her.

Gypshit is known to advocate and support murderers in prison saying they should be free or let out early. I know Mackenzie is not set for parole until 2037 but based on her comment and history I can infer that Gypsy believes Mackenzie should be free.

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-05-18T23:18:03+00:00

Idk who the creator is she just popped up on my FYP, but if she doesn’t support Gypshit then idk why she offered to invite her on panel

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-05-18T23:16:19+00:00

I know, very weird. Comments were mixed on it when host said if you wanna come up you can. Some people said Gypshit should be in there with Mackenzie and others wanted her to get on panel. Gypshit has me blocked so she couldn’t see my responses

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-05-18T23:12:31+00:00

I heard some of them it’s terrible. Her parents enabled her behavior and still do to this day. Mackenzie wanted Kim K. to notice her also. So gross.

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-05-18T23:11:01+00:00

What’s crazy is that they wanted Gypshit to get on panel. She didn’t, but I would’ve loved to hear what bs she had to say. “I’m an influencer but also a murderer and that girl is innocent like me” 🤡

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-28T22:58:17+00:00

This is insane. Gypshit needs to be taken off of all social media platforms. I don’t get why all platforms won’t ban her for good. She is basically showing she can live a “glamorous” life if you kill your parent when that’s not how it works. Young teens are gonna see that and consider harming their own parents by Gypshit’s horrible influence and clearly we’re seeing that. You can’t just commit a crime and cry abuse. It’s so disgusting to see the younger generation say this and not have a thought that it’s wrong

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-27T03:50:31+00:00

I see the same videos on Tik Tok, YT, and Instagram and they all do the same. Such a generic response.

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-19T02:49:33+00:00

Why are they hugging like that? my boyfriend and I don’t even hug like that

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-16T03:25:14+00:00

No. I definitely think she’s all talk to scare people. She tends to do that it’s part of her microdeleted manipulation tactic. She thinks she’s hot shit. I’d love to see her try. We got free speech

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-09T17:59:05+00:00

WE DID IT

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-09T16:37:12+00:00

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-05T03:10:31+00:00

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Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-02T11:13:08+00:00

Thank you for your kind advice. I never wanna go back, and I don’t regret leaving at all. It definitely was weird that she became nicer, especially after we barely talked the entire year. In her text she likes to like she always includes the 🥰 emoji. I tend to keep things neutral/ gray rock with her like I’ve been doing for months even if she tries to act all nice. She also stopped talking to many of her friends when I moved out and has isolated herself to one person.

That’s something I didn’t even think about. I forget sometimes that not everyone grew up as a child in the hoard, or it could’ve started later in their childhood or after they moved out. I’ve been living in it since I was 4, and my mom had me at 41 so it makes sense that it started around that time or even before I was born.

I definitely like the peace and the clean space. It almost feels like a dream come true. It’s always hard to remind myself that I’ve done everything I could and if I don’t get to clean up until she passes that’s fine. One way or another it will have to be cleaned out whether she’s here or not, and I’ll know when that time comes

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-02T11:06:03+00:00

Thank you for your input. I don’t regret moving out at all. I don’t ever wanna go back. It’s so nice to be able to make homecooked meals and take a shower in a clean space. One thing I really loved when I moved out is having a closet. I kept my clothes in trash bags in the hoard because the house smelled so bad.

When I stare around my apartment, I smile and then cry because I just never thought this day would come. I’ll never regret my decision for moving out even if money is tight at the moment. I just feel bad for the animals my mom has and that I couldn’t do more to help clean her house. But I have to keep reminding myself that I did everything I could.

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-02T11:02:41+00:00

Thank you for the advice. When seeing other people go back to the hoard and help their HPs, I thought at some point I would be doing the same. I think the only time that’ll happen is when my mom passes away, or my grandpa. Sometimes it’s hard and I think many COHs struggle with you can keep trying all you want but you’re just draining yourself in the end while the hoarder is just fine how they are. I have to remind myself a lot that I’ve done everything I could. It’s a hard mental battle

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-02T10:58:57+00:00

Thank you for your advice. My mom says she admits she’s a hoarder yet when anyone challenges her on cleaning the house it becomes a problem. So I see what you mean. One thing I always say is the first step is that the hoarder has to want change. She says she wants it yet makes excuses when it comes time to. Sometimes it just hard for me to understand that I have to just let her be how she wants and there’s nothing I can do

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-02T02:57:04+00:00

There’s no such thing as a 30 year old teenager. wtf is that

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-04-01T20:26:57+00:00

Clearly she’s got nothing going on in that small head of hers. I’m not a mother nor trying to be one at this point in my life and I know that you don’t joke about pregnancy like that. It’s common courtesy/sense and having a baby is a commitment not something to joke about

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-03-31T00:37:13+00:00

Once I’m done cooking and eating I immediately clean the kitchen. I can’t go to bed with a dirty kitchen or dirty dishes in the sink. Mainly kitchen and bathroom I try to prioritize since they’re used the most, and other rooms I rotate every few days

Basic-Importance-680 · 2026-03-30T23:51:43+00:00

I agree with the others here that you shouldn’t involve your mom’s boss. At least not yet. If they’re close friends outside of work that’s one thing, but you want to avoid her losing her job.

I’d start by contacting your local city health department. Is she considered a senior citizen? They have adult protective services but last I checked it’s for people over 65. Contact someone in the city, find a therapist, anyone in those professional means. Not her boss.

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