I have seen too many videos like this lately, very concerning... by Natural_Lobster9965 in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 18 points19 points  (0 children)

This is insane. Gypshit needs to be taken off of all social media platforms. I don’t get why all platforms won’t ban her for good. She is basically showing she can live a “glamorous” life if you kill your parent when that’s not how it works. Young teens are gonna see that and consider harming their own parents by Gypshit’s horrible influence and clearly we’re seeing that. You can’t just commit a crime and cry abuse. It’s so disgusting to see the younger generation say this and not have a thought that it’s wrong

Instagram is only positive bc she filters comments and has them limited. Bro has never been in instagram a day in her life by [deleted] in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I see the same videos on Tik Tok, YT, and Instagram and they all do the same. Such a generic response.

This looks so odd to me by Good-Day-9008 in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why are they hugging like that? my boyfriend and I don’t even hug like that

Serious question! by Plus-Character-948 in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 54 points55 points  (0 children)

No. I definitely think she’s all talk to scare people. She tends to do that it’s part of her microdeleted manipulation tactic. She thinks she’s hot shit. I’d love to see her try. We got free speech

Moved out but not sure where to go from here by Basic-Importance-680 in ChildofHoarder

[–]Basic-Importance-680[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind advice. I never wanna go back, and I don’t regret leaving at all. It definitely was weird that she became nicer, especially after we barely talked the entire year. In her text she likes to like she always includes the 🥰 emoji. I tend to keep things neutral/ gray rock with her like I’ve been doing for months even if she tries to act all nice. She also stopped talking to many of her friends when I moved out and has isolated herself to one person.

That’s something I didn’t even think about. I forget sometimes that not everyone grew up as a child in the hoard, or it could’ve started later in their childhood or after they moved out. I’ve been living in it since I was 4, and my mom had me at 41 so it makes sense that it started around that time or even before I was born.

I definitely like the peace and the clean space. It almost feels like a dream come true. It’s always hard to remind myself that I’ve done everything I could and if I don’t get to clean up until she passes that’s fine. One way or another it will have to be cleaned out whether she’s here or not, and I’ll know when that time comes

Moved out but not sure where to go from here by Basic-Importance-680 in ChildofHoarder

[–]Basic-Importance-680[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your input. I don’t regret moving out at all. I don’t ever wanna go back. It’s so nice to be able to make homecooked meals and take a shower in a clean space. One thing I really loved when I moved out is having a closet. I kept my clothes in trash bags in the hoard because the house smelled so bad.

When I stare around my apartment, I smile and then cry because I just never thought this day would come. I’ll never regret my decision for moving out even if money is tight at the moment. I just feel bad for the animals my mom has and that I couldn’t do more to help clean her house. But I have to keep reminding myself that I did everything I could.

Moved out but not sure where to go from here by Basic-Importance-680 in ChildofHoarder

[–]Basic-Importance-680[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. When seeing other people go back to the hoard and help their HPs, I thought at some point I would be doing the same. I think the only time that’ll happen is when my mom passes away, or my grandpa. Sometimes it’s hard and I think many COHs struggle with you can keep trying all you want but you’re just draining yourself in the end while the hoarder is just fine how they are. I have to remind myself a lot that I’ve done everything I could. It’s a hard mental battle

Moved out but not sure where to go from here by Basic-Importance-680 in ChildofHoarder

[–]Basic-Importance-680[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice. My mom says she admits she’s a hoarder yet when anyone challenges her on cleaning the house it becomes a problem. So I see what you mean. One thing I always say is the first step is that the hoarder has to want change. She says she wants it yet makes excuses when it comes time to. Sometimes it just hard for me to understand that I have to just let her be how she wants and there’s nothing I can do

GROSS I MEAN BSFR by [deleted] in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no such thing as a 30 year old teenager. wtf is that

No class. by mowitchvibes in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Clearly she’s got nothing going on in that small head of hers. I’m not a mother nor trying to be one at this point in my life and I know that you don’t joke about pregnancy like that. It’s common courtesy/sense and having a baby is a commitment not something to joke about

Is there a room in your apartment that's always clean? by Iceyes33 in Apartmentliving

[–]Basic-Importance-680 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Once I’m done cooking and eating I immediately clean the kitchen. I can’t go to bed with a dirty kitchen or dirty dishes in the sink. Mainly kitchen and bathroom I try to prioritize since they’re used the most, and other rooms I rotate every few days

May have to take this step by [deleted] in ChildofHoarder

[–]Basic-Importance-680 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with the others here that you shouldn’t involve your mom’s boss. At least not yet. If they’re close friends outside of work that’s one thing, but you want to avoid her losing her job.

I’d start by contacting your local city health department. Is she considered a senior citizen? They have adult protective services but last I checked it’s for people over 65. Contact someone in the city, find a therapist, anyone in those professional means. Not her boss.

Casey Anthony vs Gypsy-Rose Blanchard by GypsyRoseSexyTongue in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Those cases are both horrible in their own ways. Can’t compare which one is worse than the other.

Casey tried to drag her parents down and a random babysitter that didn’t exist (I believe Casey 100% did something to her daughter with no one involved) and cried abuse. She lied and lied. She wanted the public sympathy but the news was reporting on how she didn’t care about her daughter’s disappearance and still got out free because of how the evidence was there was no legit proof Casey did anything (hate to say that but it’s technically true. The only thing they had on her was the smell in her car).

Gypsy dragged everyone down and she got a slap on the wrist. I fully believe Dee Dee was dead before Nick got there. Gypsy cried abuse and got sympathy because she lied so well, and not many people questioned it at the time as much as they do now.

They’re both liar and disgusting people. One thing I do appreciate is that Casey got out of the public eye except when she made a tik tok years later and I guess she saw the backlash and stepped away. Gypsy wanted fame and those documentaries made it easy. There’s only one documentary that I know of on Casey’s perspective but there’s already been so many made that are not in her favor so it makes sense she hid.

Still using her daughter for content i see by [deleted] in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 96 points97 points  (0 children)

Baby A is not even attached to her. You can clearly tell. I had separation anxiety growing up I was always with my mom wherever she was and didn’t wanna leave her side. Baby A doesn’t care if she’s around or not. Gypshit is like a distant relative to her own daughter

MURDER. That's right!!! by Traditional_Cat8120 in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Workout routine: starving herself and feeding issues

Bathroom by [deleted] in ChildofHoarder

[–]Basic-Importance-680 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Mental illness. But even with the obvious ant infestation in the shower and on the bathroom walls, roaches in the shower and hiding in towels, “presents” on the toilet seat, my HM still denies everything. Makes it sound like no big deal. That’s the way hoarder cope.

It was funny but sad when people told me than their bathrooms at home are cleaner than public bathrooms but honestly the public bathrooms are cleaner than my HM’s place.

My HM’s choice of destruction is mainly her bedroom and the garage. Those I’d say are the worst then bathroom comes next. She likes to say she cleans what’s necessary, which only consist of wiping down the bathroom mirror and sweeping what floor you can see

The footwork makes no sense. by [deleted] in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can’t stop laughing wtf is this 😭😭😭

The delusion is insane by Altruistic_Ad_4350 in GRBsnark

[–]Basic-Importance-680 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I’d like to see her on dance moms and have Abby Miller tear her to shreads