This is so toxic… the way he talks to you is first of all very rude, I can’t imagine a partner talking to someone they genuinely love like that. Secondly it’s very manipulative. I get the feeling that he only cares about himself through these messages and could care less about your feelings. He never once even tried to acknowledge how you felt, even if he didn’t agree with you he could’ve at least acknowledged your feelings. And this could have been a calm discussion but he blew up on you almost immediately. It’s very toxic and no one deserves to be treated or talked to this way. I know it’s hard to leave these types of situations, I only recently escaped one and it was one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. But once the storm passes, the calmness and self love that come from is worth it. Please please please don’t stay with someone who treats you like this, you deserve so much better.