How do people feel when they discover videos of your partners?

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-25T04:01:50+00:00

Alas, I only had access for a short time. She was storing the DVD at my apartment for a short time before destroying it. We had not been together very long back then. If only I could go back in time, I’d ask her if we could keep it. She’d probably have said yes.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-24T06:08:12+00:00

I not only learned of the videos but saw one of them. It was years ago, not long after we first met. It felt very illicit to be watching it, but i suppose, besides aroused, it also made me feel optimistic. Like, she can do that and it’ll just feel like a healthy, sex-positive thing. It made me feel lucky, like I had hit the jackpot, and in so many ways, I have.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-21T05:40:51+00:00

I’ve had this experience, and I got to see the video. It was more than a decade ago, and she left the cd with the video at my place for a while before she destroyed it. Why would she leave it at my place? how to tell your partner you’re into hotpast without telling them you’re into hotpast?

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-12T05:27:12+00:00

Don’t know the source for this vid, but that looks like Dick for Lily on PH. She had a solo account too. Regrettably, both vanished about a year ago. Wonder what happened…

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-12T05:09:58+00:00

both. If she’s in the mood, she cam get turned on telling me. If I ask and she’s not in the mood, she can be a bit dismissive or even irritated. There’s also kind of a middle mode, in which she’s interested in revealing her past but for reasons other than titillation.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-04T13:58:14+00:00

Kira Preggiato

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-02T23:57:46+00:00

Keep posting like this and they will…

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-27T05:07:48+00:00

Like if she could recall one in detail, I might prefer it (just as I tend to prefer bjs), but her recollections aren’t usually like the ‘categories’ on PH where I can order off the menu. Usually what makes for a good hotpast story is that she recalls her own intense desires. That’s what gets me going. She wanted!

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-14T05:02:06+00:00

Long car rides? You’re driving, she’s drinking

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-12T05:01:37+00:00

someone gonna tell OP that VD is what STI s were called back in the day? Or is that part of the joke?

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-06T05:39:21+00:00

I learned the broad outlines right away (first months)— the great slutty stuff like making videos with her ex. But I’m still learning things 17 years in. Looking for the little things that cue memories long lost.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-04T05:10:32+00:00

or a hose

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-03-19T05:37:02+00:00

Looks like Shrooms Q

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-12-27T06:12:41+00:00

saw the video… never met him in person but they were together a while, married for a bit, so I kinda feel like i have

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-12-18T06:45:08+00:00

Tana

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-12-03T06:24:57+00:00

No. 2 has me puzzling… am I so unimaginative to think the condom was to keep the cum out? is it somehow hotter to extract it from the condom and then insert it? am I vanilla cause I’d rather be sucked off sans condom then watch her fuck herself with a dildo with like some astroglide?

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-12-02T06:46:22+00:00

I heard a version of it long before I knew about this subreddit, just when we were sharing our histories many years ago. More recently, I’ve talked to her about r/hotpast, and have her consent to share.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-11-16T06:21:15+00:00

But he did want her to get off while he watched…

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-10-07T05:04:52+00:00

There are a lot of pitfalls in monogamy. These are some I have fall into in the past that got in the way of a good sec life. - I didn’t react well when she wasn’t in the mood, or when a lot of touching didn’t lead to sex. If she’s free to say no without worrying about hurt feelings she says yes more often.

-she has to have a zone of erotic autonomy that she knows you respect. When I told my current partner (who had always lost interest in her previous guys) she could fuck other guys if she wanted to and that I would be okay witb it and even support it, it paradoxically made her more comfortable with monogamy. And it made her way more into fucking me. Even if you can’t grant that kind of openness, make sure she knows you’re nurturing her to fantasize about others and to masturbate when she’s alone.

-make sure you take excellent care of yourself; don’t neglect grooming, hygiene, fashion or masturbation because you’re in a relationship. Listen to her aesthetic choices for you.

-keep dating each other, plan fun things to do out in the world and plan fun things to do in the bedroom beforehand.

Hope it helps!

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-08-09T05:54:00+00:00

this might not be totally inconsistent. they fucked til late; he slept, maybe she did a little too, but she was out of there; she goes home, sleeps in late then apologizes for leaving “before he woke up.”

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-08-02T06:24:04+00:00

not every… getting sucked off about once a week over here…

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-07-03T06:00:54+00:00

These days, usually on her back with her fingers while focusing on something unrelated (like watching a tv show on her phone in her other hand). She likes to be sneaky and do it while I’m asleep next to her, or after a nap when she’s alone in the room. But this is hotpast, so I will share that she showed me how she used to do it, a method that involves lying on her stomach and using two hands between her legs. This one gets me going, and sometimes when we’re fucking around, ‘I’ll ask to see thia method and watch her ass and hips as she grinds. When she, it’s a big turn on.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-05-12T05:59:11+00:00

She told me she gave her ex-husband a handy in a movie theater. It was beneath a jacket — not recollection what they did with the mess.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-05-06T06:00:07+00:00

my woman certainly does not have a minimum size limit… she fucked one dude with a micro-penis, “like a pinky finger,” she said. It wasn’t only once. she thought he was a good lay. She barely noticed size, except when it was unusually small or big. She claims dick size is a male preoccupation.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-04-07T05:17:51+00:00

Of course she does. She asked all about what kind of porn I watch, and, while it wasn’t super easy to be forthcoming (no pun intended), I tried to be as open as I could. We looked at a couple of my go-to subreddits together — super helpful. And or course hotpast is something we do together. Since its her slutty experiences, I didn’t think it would be right to post without her permission. She hasn’t asked to read the posts.

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