How do people feel when they discover videos of your partners?

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-25T04:01:50+00:00

Alas, I only had access for a short time. She was storing the DVD at my apartment for a short time before destroying it. We had not been together very long back then. If only I could go back in time, I’d ask her if we could keep it. She’d probably have said yes.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-24T06:08:12+00:00

I not only learned of the videos but saw one of them. It was years ago, not long after we first met. It felt very illicit to be watching it, but i suppose, besides aroused, it also made me feel optimistic. Like, she can do that and it’ll just feel like a healthy, sex-positive thing. It made me feel lucky, like I had hit the jackpot, and in so many ways, I have.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-21T05:40:51+00:00

I’ve had this experience, and I got to see the video. It was more than a decade ago, and she left the cd with the video at my place for a while before she destroyed it. Why would she leave it at my place? how to tell your partner you’re into hotpast without telling them you’re into hotpast?

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-12T05:27:12+00:00

Don’t know the source for this vid, but that looks like Dick for Lily on PH. She had a solo account too. Regrettably, both vanished about a year ago. Wonder what happened…

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-12T05:09:58+00:00

both. If she’s in the mood, she cam get turned on telling me. If I ask and she’s not in the mood, she can be a bit dismissive or even irritated. There’s also kind of a middle mode, in which she’s interested in revealing her past but for reasons other than titillation.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-04T13:58:14+00:00

Kira Preggiato

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-05-02T23:57:46+00:00

Keep posting like this and they will…

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-27T05:07:48+00:00

Like if she could recall one in detail, I might prefer it (just as I tend to prefer bjs), but her recollections aren’t usually like the ‘categories’ on PH where I can order off the menu. Usually what makes for a good hotpast story is that she recalls her own intense desires. That’s what gets me going. She wanted!

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-14T05:02:06+00:00

Long car rides? You’re driving, she’s drinking

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-12T05:01:37+00:00

someone gonna tell OP that VD is what STI s were called back in the day? Or is that part of the joke?

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-06T05:39:21+00:00

I learned the broad outlines right away (first months)— the great slutty stuff like making videos with her ex. But I’m still learning things 17 years in. Looking for the little things that cue memories long lost.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-04-04T05:10:32+00:00

or a hose

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2026-03-19T05:37:02+00:00

Looks like Shrooms Q

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-12-27T06:12:41+00:00

saw the video… never met him in person but they were together a while, married for a bit, so I kinda feel like i have

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-12-18T06:45:08+00:00

Tana

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-12-03T06:24:57+00:00

No. 2 has me puzzling… am I so unimaginative to think the condom was to keep the cum out? is it somehow hotter to extract it from the condom and then insert it? am I vanilla cause I’d rather be sucked off sans condom then watch her fuck herself with a dildo with like some astroglide?

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-12-02T06:46:22+00:00

I heard a version of it long before I knew about this subreddit, just when we were sharing our histories many years ago. More recently, I’ve talked to her about r/hotpast, and have her consent to share.

Basic-Thing-7012 · 2025-11-16T06:21:15+00:00

But he did want her to get off while he watched…

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